Dirty Douche Water

A woman has made a new exciting friend! But this friend ditches her other friends and treats them as disposable. Is the caller next?

Here’s the kind of pragmatic question and answer you’ve come to expect from the Savage Lovecast: Is it safe to douche with non-potable water?

On the Magnum, folks have been asking for a menopause expert for a while now, and we’ve got her. Dr. Stacy De-Lin has been a proud member of the Planned Parenthood team since 2013. She gives us the basics on peri-menopause, menopause, and how to mitigate the negatives. Women have been chronically under-treated, and there are medications that can help.

And, a man living in New Zealand is dating a guy in an open, long-distance relationship. The boyfriend lives in a repressive country where he can’t safely be out. The caller enjoys their low stakes, open relationship, but wonders if he should invite him to live together in New Zealand to help him to get a visa and escape.

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