A straight man confesses to lurking on Discord and masturbating to the pretty female voices he hears there. Nobody knows he is doing this (except all of us now.) Must he stop? With a new hostile regime about to take power, it’s more important than ever for queer and trans folks to get their papers … Read More »
Author Archives: Nancy Hartunian
Sex & Politics #35: Peter Rothpletz
It seems everyone is having their post-election, post-mortem. Here’s ours. Dan brings on New Republic writer Peter Rothpletz (a.k.a. Peter Twinklage on social media,) to talk about men, and the manly way to bring them back into the fold: by being total dicks. Will this strategy bear out? We don’t know, but it sounds kind … Read More »
Is ALL Cheating Unacceptable?
We open with a somewhat disturbing call from a woman whose white boyfriend visits “wack shacks” when he travels. He hires Asian sex workers to submit to race play and degradation. She approves of him indulging his various kinks outside of their relationship, but this? It’s the classic conundrum: the caller has a big wiener … Read More »
Sweet! Free therapy from Therapy Jeff.
First off, we hear from a neglected third in a poorly executed threeway hook-up. He failed to advocate for himself, and the other two guys weren’t asking if he was ok, sitting on the couch, looking at his phone. How could this have gone better? And how can he get over the waves of insecurity … Read More »
A Politics-Free Election Day Show.
We’re giving you a break from whatever stressful stuff is going on this week to bring you some of the more…interesting calls we’ve collected. A man’s girlfriend wants to try saline injections on her breasts for a “24 hour boob job.” The question is, can he safely do the injecting? A woman’s cat is grieving … Read More »
Sex & Politics # 34: Tim Keck
For this very special episode of Sex & Politics, Dan brings on one of his oldest pals, Tim Keck, to hold him gently during this stressful election season. Keck started The Onion in Madison, Wisconsin in 1988, then moved to Seattle to start The Stranger, where Dan got his start with Savage Love. Now, Keck … Read More »
Hooking Up With Your Former Bully
A poly guy lives in a rural area with his fiancé. He is building his own house, and hires laborers to come live with him while they build. One of the laborers started hooking up with the caller’s girlfriend without consulting the caller or gaining his consent. Now what? This guy is living in his … Read More »
Straight Male Comedians Can Be Funny Too.
A woman has been dating a man from Ghana for 4 months. She just learned that he has a wife and kid back home, that he married out of familial/cultural obligation. Should the caller hold out to see if he chooses her over his overseas family? A married woman has a one year-old kid. She … Read More »
“Honey, shall we go to the lesbian sex rave?”
A lesbian couple has been together for a couple years, and things are still hot between them. But they wonder if they should check out a sex club just to add a little spice. They are monogamous, and have no interest in contact with other women. Their friends say it’s impossible to remain exclusive with … Read More »
With Randy Rainbow
An apology is required! But who is in the wrong here? An NB person got so, so sick with covid. They had already made out with their boyfriend, so he was already exposed — by our so, so sick caller. When they asked him to come over, deliver some food, and offer bit of comfort … Read More »