A married gay man endured a sexless relationship for 10 long years… until he didn’t. After cheating, he is getting a divorce. But now the caller feels villainized, as his ex-husband spins the story out to their friends. How can he avoid being painted as the bad guy? A dad just got a delicious Prince … Read More »
Author Archives: Nancy Hartunian
When Your Friend Drunkenly Hits on You.
When drunk friends pounce! A happily married, monogamous man went to a concert with his gal pal. But she arrived so drunk, staggering around and embarrassing herself, that he had to bundle her in a car and get her home. But she made sloppy moves on him, and although it’s been a long time, he … Read More »
Hate-Fuck Your Bully.
When telling a hook-up that you don’t want to continue seeing them, how much detail should you give? A woman enjoyed the sex with her quickie guy, but he was too insecure and needy for her tastes. Should she tell him this in the exit interview? A lesbian was terribly bullied in school by three … Read More »
What’s worse? Evil Granny or Gonorrhea?
A pansexual woman and her new lover got an unpleasant surprise…gonorrhea! But nothing makes sense. They had both tested negative and he claimed he wasn’t sleeping with anyone else. Did she get it from her sex toys? What happened here? A woman was messing around with a married man for a while. He always closed … Read More »
Cock Blocked…By His Own Sister?!
A man and his sister are very close, living in the same town. He developed a crush on one of her friends, but she forbade him from asking her out. The sister used to date his friends now and again, which he encouraged. Should he risk angering his sister and ask the girl out already? … Read More »
Sex Crying and Drag Pronouns
A midwife has recently learned that people who were born with a tongue-tie might have trouble giving oral sex later in life. Should she advise new parents to get their newborns surgery on their itty-bitty little baby tongues? A woman has started crying during sex, and not the joyful release kind of crying. She has … Read More »
Sex & Politics #24: Trae Crowder
For this Sex & Politics, Dan brings back our favorite hillbilly, comedian Trae Crowder. His YouTube rants were a balm during the Trump years, giving leftie lectures in a Deep South accent. He and Dan talk about how people perceive his Southern drawl, whether “redneck” is equivalent to the N-word, JD Vance, “blue sheep” in … Read More »
Horny Twinks in the Dungeon
A woman’s casual partner like to sext her before they meet up. He tends to obsess over the things she’s told him she won’t do. Is he pushing her boundaries intentionally, trying to get to “Yes,” or is he just fantasizing? In any case she wishes he would knock it off. A gay man wonders … Read More »
Homo Bro Code?
Is there a homo bro code? A man hooked up with his casual boyfriend’s roommate. Then the boyfriend moved away and they broke up peacefully. Now the caller is worried about resuming his hook-ups with the roommate for fear his ex’s friends will find out and revolt. Does this happen in gayland? A woman is … Read More »
Love Bites.
A masochistic woman is happily paired with her sadist. They both love it when he bites her. But lately, she’s become more sensitive, maybe because she stopped taking hormonal birth control. In the past few sessions, she had to use her safe word and he’s beginning to sulk. How can they get back to the … Read More »