I’m a 24-year-old gay man with a 31-year-old bi boyfriend. I’ve known since we got together that he’s a lot more sexually experienced than I am, but it’s never been a big deal before now. This weekend, he met my parents for what we thought would be the first time. But it turns out that … Read More »
Author Archives: savagelovestg
Dan Savage Worships Goddess Charlotte Lashes.
Our opening “sexcess” story will make all the licensed massage therapists cringe. We are truly sorry. A woman and her girlfriend have gotten in the habit of using baby voices with each other. They know this is terrible, but they can’t stop. Dan! Make them stop! On the Magnum, Dan continues crushing out on dominatrixes. … Read More »
I’m a gay male in my forties and I’ve been married to my husband for nine years. There was some mild infidelity on his part (exchanging photos and flirting via text with another guy) early in our relationship. I confronted him at the time, and he lied to me. I decided to let it go, … Read More »
The sordid history of STDs. With Ina Park.
A nice bi man just wanted to join a nudist community and hang out with his nudist homies, not wearing any clothes and being naked. He certainly DID NOT want to be ogled or groped by the creepy leader of the group. So now what? Should he try to oust the creep, give up on … Read More »
In the Straights
My wife got drunk at a vacation house we rented with a bunch of friends and cheated on me with my best friend in the hot tub. They didn’t have sex but they did other things. I wasn’t there but there were eight other people in the hot tub and the jets were on so … Read More »
Divorce at Any Age? With Joan Price.
Women beware! A new form of negging has emerged. If you followed a hook-up on Instagram, but he didn’t follow you back, it could be INSTA-NEGGING. A trans man iplans to do a lot more butt sex once he has bottom surgery. How can he prepare on a daily basis? On the Magnum, is it … Read More »
I’m a 19-year-old girl who was dumped few months ago. My partner found out he didn’t like my body when we were having sex for the first time and he told me right after. We were actually still in bed naked when he told me. He kept cuddling me to make me feel a bit … Read More »
Dirty, Nasty Words! With Professor John McWhorter.
A bi woman wants to try threeways with her boyfriend. He enthusiastically agrees. But it’s been a while since she’s been with a woman, and wants to have a trial run with just her unicorn. Now, he’s getting a little nervous… A woman with a 12 year-old son has been toying with the idea of … Read More »
On the first Thursday of every month I host “Sack Lunch,” an online hangout exclusively for Magnum subscribers to the Savage Lovecast. I take questions, invite listeners to answer them with me, and we have a blast. I’m giving this week’s column over to some of the questions we didn’t get to during this month’s … Read More »
Oh no it’s MRSA! With Dr. Paul Pottinger.
Dear Emily Post: What am I to do when I encounter my boyfriend in the basement enjoying large amounts of cocaine, in women’s attire, with a gentleman we both know very well? A kinky woman already agreed to open up her relationship with her boyfriend. So why did he have to go out and cheat? … Read More »