The open-minded father of a 14-year-old lesbian wonders if he should allow her to have sleepovers with her girlfriend. Dan’s position on the Mormon poly lifestyle… revealed! Is it intolerable to dump your boyfriend right when he’s about to go into surgery? And more ethical dilemmas. 206-201-2720 Comment on what you heard here at thestranger.com/lovecast And be sure to get yourself a copy of the Savage Love App for iTunes and Android.