Let’s get right to it… Randy Rainbow came back on the Lovecast and we briefly discussed something we think straight people could learn from gay people. Ann on Instagram wasn’t having it… You don’t know what straight people think or feel cause you’re not straight. Vice versa. Hate this kinda projection. Both of you are … Read More »

Thank you for the birthday wishes and all the great Fucked Around and Found Out Something Good stories you shared publicly (in the comment thread on this week’s Lovecast) and privately. A couple of you asked me to share my own FAFOSG story, so here’s my top two: thirty years ago I fucked around in … Read More »

Welcome to Struggle Session, where I respond to reader and listener comments and toss up a question that isn’t going to make it into the column and invite you — my readers and listeners — take a turn playing advice columnist. And remember: the only qualification you need to give advice (“opinion about what could … Read More »

Welcome to Struggle Session, a weekly post where I respond to a few listener/ reader comments and then toss up a letter that isn’t going to make it into the column and let my listeners/readers give a little sex and relationship advice. First up… In regards to ASSUP, the reader who was wondering whether he … Read More »

We’ve got a longer Struggle Session for you this week — I had a whole lotta time to kill on a very long flight — and I dropped in a question at the end that isn’t going to make it into the column. If you make it all the way to the end of this … Read More »

Hey, everybody! I’ll be hosting Savage Love Live for our Magnum Subs a little less then an hour. I hope to see as many of my subs there as possible! But first: I’m going to toss up a couple of quick things for today’s Struggle Session — including a letter I won’t be responding to … Read More »

We’re doing something a different with Struggle Session for the rest of the summer: Instead of me responding at length to reader/listener comments, I’m tossing up one or two short things — quick comments, quick responses — and then sharing a letter that came in this week that’s too long for the column. (Savage Love … Read More »

Like I said last week, we’re doing something different with Struggle Session for the rest of the summer. Instead of me responding at length to reader/listener comments, I’m gonna toss up one or two short things — quick comments — and then share an interesting letter that’s way too long for the column. (Savage Love … Read More »

Dear Readers: Like I said on the Lovecast this week, I’m taking a break from Struggle Session for the rest of August. My summer has been a little crazed — in mostly good ways — and I still haven’t managed to figure out how to keep Struggle Session to a manageable length. Anyway, on the … Read More »