A gay man’s boyfriend insists on showering just before sex, every single time. But the caller likes a little funk! How can they reconcile this fundamental difference. Dan’s answer is sneaky. Don’t be alarmed, but one of this week’s questions requires the expertise of a mortician. On the Magnum, Dan enlists New York Times rival columnist Roxane Gay for a Second Opinion on some folks who got dumped, and can’t deal. Also, hear the tale of the man and his very, very rich employer- a petty woman who doesn’t hesitate snub and insult his girlfriend.