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“Get your vax!” says Doc Barak.

“Soooo. About my daddy.” A gay man has developed a pleasant non-monogamous sugar baby/sugar daddy relationship. How can he tell his dates and boyfriends about his very special daddy? A woman has discovered that her boyfriend of 2 years has been seeing cam girls and compulsively giving them money. He isn’t interested in sexy pictures … Read More »

Happy Infertility Awareness Week!

When your baby has a peanut allergy and your in-laws don’t take it seriously, well, the sparks are gonna fly. The eternal question: can you make your penis bigger? Dan’s answer may not shock you. ON the Magnum version, Dr. Shanna Swan author of “Countdown” is on to talk about declining sperm counts, environmental toxins … Read More »

Jon Ronson on porn and cancel culture.

In the intro: You wanted to hear what Dan Savage thinks of the Armie Hammer scandal? Now he will tell you. A sugar baby had been seeing a married man for 2 years, when they fell in love. Now that there’s nothing transactional going on, is it less ethical? Finally! Dan Savage deconstructs drag. Are … Read More »

Insta-Apocalypse with JoEllen Notte.

Ah, the pleasures of getting rimmed! But what if you are alone, during quarantine times? Is there a sex toy out there to help a lass get off? Starting in kindergarten, a woman began masturbating using a very specific and very odd technique. Now she needs to do this, and she’s super-embarrassed about it. How … Read More »

Is there a urologist in the house?

A sugar baby has fallen in love with her sugar daddy. He loves her too! Except, he kind of doesn’t want her to meet his actual daughter. Does she have the right to demand it? A coach at a college has been asked to drive one of her students to get an abortion. Because of … Read More »

With Caitlin Doughty and Roxane Gay

A gay man’s boyfriend insists on showering just before sex, every single time. But the caller likes a little funk! How can they reconcile this fundamental difference. Dan’s answer is sneaky. Don’t be alarmed, but one of this week’s questions requires the expertise of a mortician. On the Magnum, Dan enlists New York Times rival … Read More »

Lesbians and Syrian Refugees

A married Canadian lesbian is about to meet the Syrian refugees that her parents are hosting. But she worries that they will not approve of gay people. How should she present herself and her wife to these traumatized people from a different culture? A woman gets strep throat every time she gives head. What the … Read More »

Let’s hear it for companionate marriage!

A woman is thinking of surprising her boyfriend with another woman to have a three-way with. Can Dan talk her out of it? An evenly bisexual man had to come out at his macho job as gay when was engaged to a man. Now that he’s dating a woman, does he have to come out … Read More »

Why do religious conservatives get so many darn divorces?

We open with a heartrending call from a woman in the Bible belt, whose own children condemn her for dating a black man. The year is 2014. Dan chats with Hanna Rosin (Author of “The End of Men”,) on women’s changing relationship with their careers vs. partners. On the Magnum, a fascinating “What You Got” … Read More »

It’s Fashion Week with Simon Doonan!

There’s a lot of bisexuality sloshing around this show. Dan speaks with Ellyn Ruthstrom of the Bisexual Resource Center on coming out, and seeking acceptance from both straight and gay folks. A bi woman who is married to a man wonders how to let the world know she’s bi, when the topic doesn’t come up … Read More »