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Episodes tagged: casual sex

Lying Closeted Cop

On the Magnum: Dr. Ina Park on herpes fear
Episode #946 —
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A gay man was dating a closeted cop for 4 years. Then he found out that the cop WASN’T closeted, and WASN’T single (he has a live-in boyfriend,) but IS a big fat liar. Now the caller wants closure. A straight man just got dumped by his girlfriend after 1 1/2 years. His crime? He … Read More »

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Episode #941 —
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First off, we hear from a neglected third in a poorly executed threeway hook-up. He failed to advocate for himself, and the other two guys weren’t asking if he was ok, sitting on the couch, looking at his phone. How could this have gone better? And how can he get over the waves of insecurity … Read More »

“Enough with the poly!”

On the Magnum: The Daily Show's Dulcé Sloan
Episode #901 —
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“Enough with the poly! ” Or so says this gay man, who is sick of being disrespected by his boyfriend catting around, acting like a no-good cad and using polyamory as a shield. Meanwhile, can’t a homo in the rural West have nice, no-strings-attached hook-ups anymore? All the men he meets want to get married … Read More »

Hate-Fuck Your Bully.

On the Magnum: Dr. Debby Herbenick helps you talk to your kid about sex.
Episode #892 —
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When telling a hook-up that you don’t want to continue seeing them, how much detail should you give? A woman enjoyed the sex with her quickie guy, but he was too insecure and needy for her tastes. Should she tell him this in the exit interview? A lesbian was terribly bullied in school by three … Read More »

Horny Twinks in the Dungeon

On the Magnum: Connor Clary from the Five Star Review podcast
Episode #888 —
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A woman’s casual partner like to sext her before they meet up. He tends to obsess over the things she’s told him she won’t do. Is he pushing her boundaries intentionally, trying to get to “Yes,” or is he just fantasizing? In any case she wishes he would knock it off. A gay man wonders … Read More »

With comedian/writer Zach Zimmerman

Episode #861 —
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Is it feasible to start your pro-Domme career at age 43? This married woman with kids wants to get back in the life.  A lesbian is married to a woman with a Catholic upbringing and actively religious family. They live in a country where they have to pay dues to the church. When her wife … Read More »

Butt talk ahoy! With Dr. Evan Goldstein.

Episode #854 —
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A woman masturbates in her sleep. Although she’s currently single, she worries about times when she has to share a room with family or friends. Should she warn them?  A woman’s sister plans to gallivant off to Texas to meet an online lover for the first time, on his rural cattle ranch, for some no-strings-attached … Read More »

How to Talk Gay With Zach Noe Towers

Episode #850 —
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Your place or mine? A recently divorced woman wants to sleep around. Is it safer to have  men come to her house, or should she go to theirs? A married man remembers a fling he had decades ago. But it’s a bit of a blur. They were drinking, but he vaguely remembers not wearing a … Read More »

Bi men, we see you!

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So many bi and adventurous queer men this week! A 61 year-old gay man has never, ever, ever been near a vagina since he emerged from one 6 decades ago…until now. He is seeing a trans man and finds he is loving pleasing him, but can’t quite make penetration work.  And, another gay man had … Read More »

How to not get monkeypox: with Dr. Carlton Thomas.

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We’re putting out a special extra show for you all. It is becoming clear that monkeypox is spreading quickly through the gay community, and that the national response has been disorganized and unclear in its messaging. Dan spoke with Dr. Carlton Thomas, a gastroenterologist, who has been treating gay men, and attests to how painful … Read More »