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Savage Lovecast Archives for 2021

Second Opinion with Alexander Cheves.

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Ok, exactly how many people need to be involved for it to be called an orgy? A woman has been mulling over something that happened 20 years ago between her and her brother-in-law. When she was 19, and her sister was away, her sister’s husband put on some porn, and asked her a bunch of … Read More »

All Hail the Gottmans!

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“Wait. Where did that flared base, glass butt plug go? Oh, that’s right! It’s still up my butt!” The caller tried to do everything right. But she might need surgery to get it out. A woman’s boyfriend cheated on her with a sex worker… who also happens to be her own damn hairdresser! Dan and … Read More »

Unlock your sexual potential…with poppers!

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Wedding drama ahoy! A man’s dad had a fight with his sister. Years later, the sister got married, and at her wedding, her dad orchestrated a big walk-out of many of the family, leaving the bride in tears. (That’s some stone cold revenge right there.) Should the caller break off contact with his dad over … Read More »

Hurts So Good with Leigh Cowart.

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It’s the sight that strikes fear in everyone’s hearts: WHITE DREADS. One of his lovers has them, and just doesn’t wanna cut them off. His other partners are offended. Should he keep seeing this woman? Is she oblivious to the connotations, or a bit of a troll? A gay man’s boyfriend is a very kinky … Read More »

Cult Wedding with Amanda Montell

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A woman had sex with her super-hot neighbor. Then she found out that not only is he unvaccinated, but uses a fake vax card. Should she continue to share her body with this monster? A young gay man wants to be able to both top and bottom. But when he’s topping his gets so in … Read More »

With “Ask a Sub’s” Lina Dune.

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Have you ever lost a dildo up your butt? This man has, but somehow the tale ends up as our opening “sexcess” story. A 51 year-old woman is seeing a 33 year-old man. It’s fantastic, but how long can it last? On the Magnum, Dan brings back Lina Dune, from “Ask a Sub” to talk … Read More »

Apple’s iPhone Surveillance Explained.

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A man’s randy co-worker has slept with the wives of other workers and tons of women on the job. He nearly got fired for it, but he’s back. Should the caller confront this man and tell him to knock it off? Warn all the females on staff? If someone you were chatting with from an … Read More »

Welcome To Kinkyville! (Now Open Your Wallets)

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Everyone’s worried that they are taking up too much space. A straight man feels guilty that he signed up for an activity meant for folks in the LGBT community. And, a transman ventured into a gay leather bar with his girlfriend and got the stink-eye. Is it cool to bring your girlfriend into dedicated gay … Read More »

Let’s Talk About Testosterone. With Dr. Carole Hooven

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On this episode, we are treated to a couple of calls concerning pronouns. One comes from a man who doesn’t understand how to use the familiar 2nd person plural when one or more are non-binary. Another comes from a man who proposes a new catch all gender-neutral pronoun to rule us all. Will it stick? … Read More »

With Comedian Jen Kirkman.

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A woman is sick of being a dirty little secret. Her boyfriend’s ex-partner would withhold access to the kids if she found out about the relationship. Can she demand that he tell his ex? A woman fantasizes that she’s a gay man when she’s having sex. But the rest of the time, she feels like … Read More »

Dan Savage Worships Goddess Charlotte Lashes

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Our opening “sexcess” story will make all the licensed massage therapists cringe. We are truly sorry. A woman and her girlfriend have gotten in the habit of using baby voices with each other. They know this is terrible, but they can’t stop. Dan! Make them stop! On the Magnum, Dan continues crushing out on dominatrixes. … Read More »

Dan Savage Worships Goddess Charlotte Lashes.

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Our opening “sexcess” story will make all the licensed massage therapists cringe. We are truly sorry. A woman and her girlfriend have gotten in the habit of using baby voices with each other. They know this is terrible, but they can’t stop. Dan! Make them stop! On the Magnum, Dan continues crushing out on dominatrixes. … Read More »

The sordid history of STDs. With Ina Park.

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A nice bi man just wanted to join a nudist community and hang out with his nudist homies, not wearing any clothes and being naked. He certainly DID NOT want to be ogled or groped by the creepy leader of the group. So now what? Should he try to oust the creep, give up on … Read More »

Divorce at Any Age? With Joan Price.

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Women beware! A new form of negging has emerged. If you followed a hook-up on Instagram, but he didn’t follow you back, it could be INSTA-NEGGING. A trans man iplans to do a lot more butt sex once he has bottom surgery. How can he prepare on a daily basis? On the Magnum, is it … Read More »

Dirty, Nasty Words! With Professor John McWhorter.

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A bi woman wants to try threeways with her boyfriend. He enthusiastically agrees. But it’s been a while since she’s been with a woman, and wants to have a trial run with just her unicorn. Now, he’s getting a little nervous… A woman with a 12 year-old son has been toying with the idea of … Read More »

Oh no it’s MRSA! With Dr. Paul Pottinger.

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Dear Emily Post: What am I to do when I encounter my boyfriend in the basement enjoying large amounts of cocaine, in women’s attire, with a gentleman we both know very well? A kinky woman already agreed to open up her relationship with her boyfriend. So why did he have to go out and cheat? … Read More »

Save the Lesbian Bars! With Lea Delaria.

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After a dazzling “sexcess” story, we launch into three tales of dreadful parents. Conservative, manipulative, disrespectful, bigoted parents. If you have this kind of parent, our hearts go out to you. Are you a thoughtful gift giver? This woman is, and she REALLY wishes her boyfriend would reciprocate… On the Magnum: Save the lesbian bars! … Read More »

Those naughty ancient Greeks.

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A mother in Central America is worried that her son is being a little too risky when he walks home from the beach in women’s clothing. When she confronts him about this, he calls her a transphobic, homophobic boomer. Teens! Am I right? A woman is afraid that her boyfriend will cheat on her. And … Read More »

This Proctologist Gets It.

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Our opening “Sexcess” story should flood all you postpartum parents with optimism. A married straight couple have an arrangement where she can go outside the relationship, and he remains monogamous to her. All good. But she wants to tell everyone about it, and he wants to keep it under wraps. Who wins? On the Magnum, … Read More »

Problematic Fantasies, with Dr. Justin Lehmiller.

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Sometimes the “happy ending” in an erotic massage can go both ways. Our caller enjoyed orally pleasuring his masseuse so much that he wants to continue the relationship outside the parlor. What is the proper etiquette in asking out an erotic massage practitioner? (Sorry LMTs! We know you don’t want to hear ANY of this…) … Read More »

Yes, Vasectomies Are Safe.

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Dan! Dan! My dildos melted together in the drawer! Horrifically, this is not uncommon if you buy cheap-ass sex toys. A gay man is establishing a potentially great friends-with-benefits relationship. The problem? The guy won’t stop sending him stupid little memes all the damn day long. How can our caller put an end to this … Read More »

Enter the World of the Furries.

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Our opening “sex-cess” story is extra delightful this week, because it centers the Climbing Boy. Our caller advises you to get yourself one, pronto. Ok, neo-pronouns. Just how ridiculous are they? On the Magnum, Dan chats with Seattle writer Matt Baume about the friendly, pervy world of furries and the super-interesting work they’ve been doing … Read More »

Psychedelics for the Win!

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Boundaries are hard! For instance, a married couple of 12 years decided to open the relationship. So naturally, she started sleeping with her husbands brother in their own house. Of course. And! If you knocked on the door, and your kid confessed that they were masturbating, would you A) Mutter, “Sorry!” and walk away. B) … Read More »

Wait. Bill & Melinda???

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My, what a fetish-y show we have for you this week! Genital stretching? Check. Chastity belts? Sure. Piss play? Why not? Gainer/Feeder? Let’s go! In a more wholesome turn, Dan welcomes Dr. Debby Herbenick back to the show. The sex educator answers a question about the nature of multiple orgasms for women and the unwelcome … Read More »

With Anna Sale of the Death, Sex & Money podcast!

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It’s a boy! A pregnant woman upon learning the sex of her unborn baby is devastated that she’s not getting the daughter she always dreamed of. Can she learn to love…a son? Have you heard the Death, Sex & Money podcast with Anna Sale? Well! Anna joined us to talk about her new book “Let’s … Read More »

“Get your vax!” says Doc Barak.

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“Soooo. About my daddy.” A gay man has developed a pleasant non-monogamous sugar baby/sugar daddy relationship. How can he tell his dates and boyfriends about his very special daddy? A woman has discovered that her boyfriend of 2 years has been seeing cam girls and compulsively giving them money. He isn’t interested in sexy pictures … Read More »

Happy Infertility Awareness Week!

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When your baby has a peanut allergy and your in-laws don’t take it seriously, well, the sparks are gonna fly. The eternal question: can you make your penis bigger? Dan’s answer may not shock you. ON the Magnum version, Dr. Shanna Swan author of “Countdown” is on to talk about declining sperm counts, environmental toxins … Read More »

With comedian Justin Randall.

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In our opening Sexcess Story, a German man offers this kind-hearted maxim: “It’s hard to stay mad when you are covered in come.” A man wonders if his covid vaccine is what caused his libido to spike. His female friend said the same thing! She claims she had 10 ORGASMS right after getting her shot. … Read More »

Evangelicals and “Sex Addiction.”

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In our opening Sexcess story, a very delightful woman in her 60s has discovered that one wee edible before sex can yield untold orgasms. A gay man has discovered that he enjoys voyeurism and exhibitionism. But how can these be acted out ethically? On the Magnum, Dan talks with Kelsy Burke, a sociologist who studies … Read More »

With Big Mouth’s Nick Kroll!

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Let the swooning begin. Dan brings on one of his heroes, comedian Nick Kroll to answer some questions and to talk about his show Big Mouth. They chat about meeting sleazy, pre-teen masturbation, dating while famous and many other things. We love Nick Kroll, and so do you. Some of the interview is on the … Read More »

With Erika Moen & Matt Nolan.

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Gather round. Hear the cautionary tale of the gaslighting vibrator thief. It’s tough out there for a male gynecologist. A man in his Ob Gyn residency asks for tips on giving exams that put his patients at ease. Dan brings on Dr. Ian Fields, Assistant Program Director for the OBGYN residency at OHSU to discuss … Read More »

Serial Cow Pie Copulators

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“Dear Miss Manners, Am I obliged to respond to the gentlemen I encounter on ‘Grindr,’ even if I am not in the least bit interested?” Dan counsels yet another woman who lays herself down as a human doormat. DTMFA! If your man hasn’t yet told his friends that he’s dating you, it’s time to move … Read More »

Here comes Randy Rainbow!

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A gay man has started seeing a new guy. But the lad said he wanted to wait until marriage to have sex. This is highly unusual amongst homosexuals, don’t you think? Is it possible to have a loving, romantic relationship, and also engage in financial domination? Sounds spicy! Clear a path! Clear a path! Here … Read More »

After the shot: dating post-vaccination.

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Have you ever been blocked? This man was! When he and his boyfriend of 6 months had their first big fight, they broke up, and the boyfriend slammed the door shut. Now the caller wants closure. Dan Savage is here to hold his hand through it. A man is attempting to grow some foreskin through…techniques. … Read More »

With Charles M. Blow of the NYT.

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Is it wrong to suggest to your unsuccessful internet date that she start seeing your roommate instead? A woman’s friend-with-benefits pal is becoming obsessed with sex! He fills her drawers with sex toys for her to use on him. But he pays scant attention to her pleasure. What’s the next step here? On the Magnum, … Read More »

Dr. Sarah Hunter Murray, on the science of male desire.

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A woman has discovered she has a taste for bisexual dudes. But so many are closeted, or don’t lead with their bi-ness on apps. How can she root them out? Dan wades into drama, intrigue and subterfuge! A gay man’s acquaintance has dark designs on a straight man in their life. Should the caller warn … Read More »

Jon Ronson on porn and cancel culture.

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In the intro: You wanted to hear what Dan Savage thinks of the Armie Hammer scandal? Now he will tell you. A sugar baby had been seeing a married man for 2 years, when they fell in love. Now that there’s nothing transactional going on, is it less ethical? Finally! Dan Savage deconstructs drag. Are … Read More »

With comedian London Hughes.

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Sure, sure. He’s a good boyfriend…during a pandemic. But when the covid glasses come off, will he still be right for her? After 20 years of marriage, a woman finally understands that she is asexual. She wants nothing of sex, whatsoever. She would love for him to get laid outside of their relationship, but he’s … Read More »

Dr. Jen Gunter on Recurrent UTIs.

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Welcome to the sisterhood! A trans woman got aggressively propositioned by one of the men in her macho friend group. Another one slut-shamed her after she posted a bikini pic on Insta. Wait. Men are pigs??? You may recall, a couple weeks ago we heard from a woman with recurrent UTIs. We got flooded with … Read More »

On asking your friend for sperm. With Diana Adams, esq.

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He took part in the Moderna vaccine trial, which puts him at the front of the line to get his shot. But he’s a young, healthy man who works from home. Should he wait, lest he deny someone who needs it more than him? A woman starting a new relationship used to have an eating … Read More »

Wife Sharing! With Michael Cee of the Keys and Anklets Podcast.

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When your wife is buddies with the MAGA crowd: Dan counsels a man whose wife hangs out with covid-denying, conspiracy theory-believing, Trump-loving simpletons. He is pretty conservative himself, but these people! It’s too much! A middle-aged man is newly grappling with his bisexuality. The wife isn’t into it. How can he find other guys like … Read More »

Insta-Apocalypse with JoEllen Notte.

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Ah, the pleasures of getting rimmed! But what if you are alone, during quarantine times? Is there a sex toy out there to help a lass get off? Starting in kindergarten, a woman began masturbating using a very specific and very odd technique. Now she needs to do this, and she’s super-embarrassed about it. How … Read More »