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Savage Lovecast Archives for 2025

What Goes On at the Bathhouse?

On the Magnum: Katie Simon on Sex After Assault.
Episode #968 —
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A man in a queer group chat saw that folks were talking about going to a bathhouse in their city for the first time. The caller explained what goes on there, how consent can be slushy, and trans men might not feel welcome. This shut down the conversation. Was he wrong to tell it like … Read More »

Fake News! A history of The Onion with Christine Wenc

On the Magnum: Are you into iglooing?
Episode #967 —
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A man briefly dated a guy who only bottoms, and collects a variety of giant dildos. The caller worries that his natural size would never satisfy a man like this, and wonders if this is just the standard psychology of power bottoms. A straight woman tends to be attracted to gay and bisexual men, though … Read More »

With Amanda Knox

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Oh, boy! A threesome might be brewing! A woman just connected with a hot guy through an app. He has another gal he sees, and the three of them plan to get together. But the caller is convinced that the other two are way hotter than she is, and she’s worried she’ll feel insecure and … Read More »

Language Barrier at the Orgy

On the Magnum: Dr. Debby Herbenick
Episode #965 —
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Ooh la la! A young Canadian woman has been living in a European city, making friends and… having group sex. She doesn’t speak their language- her friends are usually accommodating and speak English around her. But sometimes when the gang is banging, they revert to their native tongue and she feels left out. Should she … Read More »

In Defense of Faking Orgasms

On the Magnum: All Hail Zach Zimmerman!
Episode #964 —
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My what a busy friend! While a woman and her boyfriend were going through a painful, temporary separation, she confided in and was consoled by a male, bi friend of hers. He helped her through the difficult time. But he was also propositioning her ex-boyfriend at the same, damn time! Now that she is back … Read More »

Magnum Extra: Sex & Politics #38

Poly Power to the People!
Episode #37 —
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For the triumphant return of Sex & Politics, (after taking some very deep breaths and more than a few edibles,) we are delighted to welcome two important thought leaders in the realm of non-monogamy. Dedeker Winston is the co-host of the Multiamory Podcast, a research-based relationship advice show that centers non-traditional relationships. Brett Chamberlin is … Read More »

Do The Thing

On the Magnum: Adam Zmith on Poppers
Episode #963 —
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A chill married lesbian is a little annoyed to hear that her consistently straight friend, engaged to a man, has announced that she is pan. She is pan, but she plans to remain monogamous with her husband. What’s more, she is throwing herself a coming-out-as-pan party. When the caller came out as lesbian, she got … Read More »

Legal Advice for Trans Folks

On the Magnum: Dr. Jen Gunter on a new BV study
Episode #962 —
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A gay man and his boyfriend are in an open relationship. His boyfriend forbids the caller from messing around with anyone in their friend group. But this friend group is super-kinky and super-horny, regularly propositioning the caller for naughty fun. It’s getting hard to say no… A trans guy still has “female” on his birth … Read More »

Dirty Douche Water

On the Magnum: Dr. Stacy De-Lin on Menopause 101
Episode #961 —
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A woman has made a new exciting friend! But this friend ditches her other friends and treats them as disposable. Is the caller next? Here’s the kind of pragmatic question and answer you’ve come to expect from the Savage Lovecast: Is it safe to douche with non-potable water? On the Magnum, folks have been asking … Read More »

Blindfold Magic!

On the Magnum: Jeffery Self
Episode #960 —
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A man chanced upon his wife’s journals when he was cleaning the closets and couldn’t help himself: he read some of them, and learned things about wife’s sexual desires he hadn’t known before. It made him fall in love with her all over again. But now what? Does he tell her what he did? Or … Read More »

Our First After-Action Report!

On the Magnum: Javier Leiva on rooting out grifters.
Episode #959 —
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A woman is dating a new guy, and it’s going really well. The catch? He looks just like the old guy, and she’s worried her friends will judge her for it. In our first After-Action Report, a longtime listener shares her tale of first-time submission. It sounds like it won’t be the last time… On … Read More »

The Houseguest’s Unwholesome Activities

On the Magnum: Queer Lady Seeking Bisexual Men!
Episode #958 —
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A woman is seeing a guy who only grudgingly goes down south. Sex for them always begins with her giving him a BJ, but because they have a Dom/sub dynamic, he feels he doesn’t owe her anything. Here’s a fun word scramble game that astute Savage Lovecast listeners can play! Unscramble these letters to form … Read More »

Gooning: A Masturbatory Trance

On the Magnum: Magdalene Taylor
Episode #957 —
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Age gap relationships! Sometimes they are a-ok. Sometimes they are not. A woman is having an argument with her boyfriend about whether his previous relationship was dicey because of the 9-year age difference. She dated a younger person too, but the circumstances were different. Dan Savage (who knows from age gap relationships) weighs in. A … Read More »

Quiet Down, Yankee Lady.

On the Magnum: What Are You Doing, Sunshyne?
Episode #956 —
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A woman’s 74-year-old father has started dating a 19-year-old woman, and no one in her family besides her is batting an eye. She’s horrified and refuses to meet the lass or speak to her father until the relationship ends. Is she being too harsh? A British poly man has an American girlfriend who comes to … Read More »

Pages and Pages of Escort Ads

On the Magnum: Meredith Goldstein of "Love Letters."
Episode #955 —
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Pages and pages of escort ads. That’s what she found on her boyfriend’s phone when she was looking for concert tickets. He insisted he wasn’t actually contacting anybody, but was using them for his spank bank. Should she believe him? Is this a problem? A man recently come out as bi, and has a boyfriend … Read More »

A Very Poly Valentine’s Day

On the Magnum: Mike Pesca
Episode #954 —
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A married gay man is newly poly with his husband and boyfriend. Simple question: Who should he celebrate Valentine’s Day with? A non-binary AFAB person frequents a sex club where women pay much less than men or couples. And there’s a dress code…men must be naked, and women must wear lingerie. The caller wears the … Read More »

Sex & Politics: Tim Miller

He's baaaaack!
Episode #37 —
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Well, here we are. Trump is President again. The only way to get through this is to laugh a little. Dan brings on former foe Tim Miller, host of The Bulwark’s podcast and the author of the best-selling book “Why We Did It: A Travelogue from the Republican Road to Hell.” They talk about what … Read More »

Straight Boy Discovers Own Ass!

On the Magnum: Manuel Betancourt
Episode #953 —
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A straight man was accidentally paired with a trans man on a hookup app. When the trans man found out his match was a straight dude, he tapped out. But that got the caller thinking… should he search for pre-op trans men on Grindr in the hopes of connecting with trans men who haven’t had … Read More »

Her Cuckold Fantasies No Longer Work.

On the Magnum: Kelly Coyne
Episode #952 —
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A straight man worries that his one-on-one OnlyFans interactions are a form of infidelity. A divorced man is out dating and learning about tantra. A couple of women he’s seen were both mothers, and although he found them attractive and his dick got hard, he couldn’t come with either of them. They both blamed themselves … Read More »

Big Poly Mess in Aisle 4!

On the Magnum: Doc Chocolate!
Episode #951 —
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A gay man is mourning the loss of his hair. He shaved it all off, but doesn’t like the new look. Are there any other options? How can he learn to love the new bald version of himself? “Big poly mess in aisle 4!” She started seeing a married man who was new to poly. … Read More »

Oh Holy Day. Happy Feast of the Ass!

On the Magnum: Rebecca Woolf on "Babygirl"
Episode #950 —
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A very happy Feast of the Ass to you all! We asked you to send us your carols and boy, did you ever deliver. Hear a smattering of our picks, and we unearthed an olde choral piece that you and your family will surely treasure. Go to our Feast of the Ass page to learn, … Read More »

The Danger of the Truth Serum

On the Magnum: the Funny Dom Returns
Episode #949 —
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Everyone is feverishly preparing for The Feast of The Ass on January 14! Consequently, many of you have questions, such as “What is the proper Feast of the Ass greeting?” And “Shouldn’t the official Feast of the Ass dessert be the Tunnel of Fudge?” As always, Dan has the answers. A woman’s brother just got … Read More »

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