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Savage Lovecast Archives for 2026

After Action Report #23

A Most Gracious Host
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Meet Ember, a trans man who, after going to a few sex parties, decided to host his own. It turns out that normie dinner party etiquette and sex party etiquette is the same: DO NOT SHOW UP ON TIME. What else happened at this party? Do you have a story to share of a leap … Read More »

Pegging My Australian Man

On the Magnum: NYT writer Christine Emba
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On the Intro, a public service announcement regarding Log Cabin Republicans and MAGA gays: “Don’t Breed Em, Don’t Feed ‘Em.” An Australian woman would like advice on pegging a military man. Our guest is NYT writer Christine Emba. Her book Rethinking Sex: A Provocation made a big splash, and added to the cultural conversation about … Read More »

After Action Report #22

Kidnapping!
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Somewhere, deep in the woods of Holland, in cabins patrolled by volunteers, there’s a very, very kinky gathering. Meet Tom, who indulged his new pal’s girlfriend and helped to abduct her, throw her in a van and speed her off to an adventure in consensual non-consent. This is varsity level stuff and not for the … Read More »

How Long Until Anal?

On the Magnum: Natalie Davis on her poly journey
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A woman in a new relationship isn’t sure this one’s going to work out. He’s a great guy, but the sex is lacking because his penis is too small for her. Is there a way to learn to enjoy the sex eventually? Here’s a question for you: “How long til anal?” After seeing Heated Rivalry, … Read More »

After Action Report #21

Three Way All Ways
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Have you ever wanted to be a fly on the wall during a MFM threeway? Listen in as the F tells the tale. How did she set it up? What was it like when they first met and shook hands? Who did who and where? Which one had a food sensitivity? You’ll have to listen … Read More »

Masochistic Macaque

On the Magnum: Dr. Matilda Brindle
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A kinky submissive woman’s last relationship went down in flames when her dom insisted on a 24/7, power exchange all-the-damn-time lifestyle. She is raising kids and caring for her sick father. She doesn’t have time for this kind of commitment. How can she set reasonable boundaries in the future? A married man despairs that he’ll … Read More »

After Action Report #20

Not So Golden
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Meet Trina, who indulged her dom’s desire. Did she love it? Did she hate it? Listen and learn. Did YOU try something new to you, and want us know about it? Write it up and send it in to [email protected].

Magnum Extra: Sex & Television

More Heated Rivalry with Matt Baume
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Dan brings back Matt Baume, author of “Hi Honey, I’m Homo!”- a history of queer characters on sitcoms. They talk about the gratifyingly realistic nature of Ilya and Shane’s relationship, how gay characters in the 70s were usually murderers and engage in a talmudic debate comparing the homo hockey show with Heartstopper.

Epstein Files Libido Crash

On the Magnum: Comedian Hayden Johnson
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Naturally, on this sex and relationship podcast, many of you are thinking about the Epstein files. One caller used to be a dom/daddy for younger women who sought him out and enjoyed him. Still he feels guilty. And another caller is having their libido crash when they read the news. Meanwhile a straight man has … Read More »

After Action Report #19

Private Room: "I came at each station."
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Vanilla. Straight. Cis. Monogamous. How could this story possibly be sexy? A monogamous couple tried a dual massage in a foreign country. Mirrors on the ceiling. Pillows on the bed. Jacuzzi. Steam room. At first they wondered if they were allowed to have sex. They were. Hear the tale! If you have a story you … Read More »

A Cure for Cottonmouth?

On the Magnum: Intimacy Coordinator Yehuda Duenyas
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When does subbing morph into self-harm? The relationship between a man and his much younger trans woman lover involves intense physical abuse. The girl has a wretched history, and engages in self harm. Although she gives consent, there’s also a language barrier that makes everything they do seem out of control and destructive. A bisexual … Read More »

After Action Report #18

In The Box
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They designed, engineered and built their own fuck box. Dan’s question: “So did you upholster it?” Hear all about it, how it fit into the sex party and whether they enjoyed it or not. Do YOU have a perverted tale to tell? Write it up and send it in to [email protected].

Sex & Politics #43

Dark Woke with Peter Rothpletz
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Peter Rothpletz is hot shit. The commentary writer has appeared in The New York Times, The New Republic, The Hill, MSNBC, and The Guardian. He is the morning newsletter chief for Mehdi Hasan’s Zeteo, and the Senior Writer and Producer for The Don Lemon Show. When Rothpletz first appeared on Sex & Politics in November … Read More »

From Zero to Soda Can

On the Magnum: Rich Juzwiak
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A 60 year-old woman wonders where she can score some poppers. A lesbian would like to score a queer dominatrix to work her over. On the Magnum, Dan chats with Rich Juzwiak of Slate’s love and sex advice column, “How to Do It.” They talk about how to make anal sex pleasurable when your partner … Read More »

“Dolls don’t make noise.”

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A woman wanted to try out her dollification kink. So, she and her butch girlfriend went to a lesbian sex party. You may be wondering what do they do to dolls at lesbian sex parties. Listen, and find out. Did you have a wild night recently? Write us at [email protected].

Where’s the Lube?

On the Magnum: Dr. Nicole McNichols
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A concerned listener asks “Where’s the lube?”-specifically about movie scenes showing gay sex. A woman in a red state makes it clear in her dating profiles that she is a leftie. She attracts men who claim to be moderate, but are really stealth MAGA creeps. Why do they do this? Why?! Our Magnum guest is … Read More »

After Action Report #16

Ketamine Therapy
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Right after her ketamine infusion, she ran home as fast as should could. And then her boyfriend got busy… Have YOU ever seen the face of a lynx in the sky? Didn’t think so. Have a sordid, sexy, weird, funny or freaky tale to tell? We are listening… Write it up and send it in … Read More »

Wait. Who Gave Who Gonorrhea?

Happy Valentine's Day!!!
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You poor, poor people. For Valentine’s Day this year, we’re going dark and airing some of your most unpleasant break-up stories. Like the woman who learned her husband was cheating on her when she saw the tattoo he got of the other woman’s initials on his leg. That sort of thing. You’ll hear a few … Read More »

Sex & Politics #42

With Matthew Vines
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Dan interviews, argues and politely spars with gay evangelical Christian Matthew Vines, author of “God and the Gay Christian.” Vines, who is married to his husband since 2022, was a potent advocate for gay marriage. Now he and Dan have a debate about the role of monogamy in gay life and society in general. They … Read More »

Proof is in the Pudding…

On the Magnum: Dr. Evan Goldstein
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Yip! Yap! Bite! A woman’s little, nasty, needy dogs are anything but “comfort animals” and her girlfriend isn’t having it. She refuses to move in with the caller while those tiny beasts are around. Are they fundamentally incompatible? A British woman learned that her husband had sexual experiences with other boys at his British boarding … Read More »

After Action Report #14

Your Gang Bang is Ready for You Madam...
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A swinging couple found a service that would fulfill their fantasy: a gang bang composed of men she chose. You may never think of gang bangs the same way again. Do you have a tale to tell?     Write us at [email protected], and let us have it.

Ah. The Gardener.

On the Magnum: Eric Williams of That’s A Gay Ass Podcast
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Have we reached peak poly drama? A queer woman has been open with her male live-in partner, having lots of great sex with him and others. The problem? His cat won’t pay any attention to her. She doesn’t feel jealous of the humans in their lives, but this cat! A widowed 81 year-old woman has … Read More »

After Action Report #13

8 men. 8 women. One Big Tarp.
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Louis, a self proclaimed cuddle-slut, found exactly what he wanted at the Liquid Love event. Hear ALL about it. If you have a SENSUAL tale to tell, scribble it down and send it in to [email protected] with the subject line: After Action Report. We’ll make you a star!

A Thong is Always a Thong

On the Magnum: Eleanor Janega on medieval kink
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What is the polite way to ask someone to clean their teeth and deal with their neglected oral hygiene? A man’s girlfriend wants him to ignore her sexually, and focus exclusively on himself. But he wants to give her pleasure. How can they reconcile this? On the Magnum, have humans always been kinky? If the … Read More »

After Action Report #12

Finally! A not-so-great experience.
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Here’s a cautionary tale from Jennie who went to the sex club with an open mind and ended up with bruises on…well you’ll have to listen to find out what went wrong.  We want to hear your story! The good, the bad, the ecstatic and the unpleasant.  Write about your weird time, and send it … Read More »

Lovecast Extra

Claire Perelman on Heated Rivalry
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Welcome to the first ever Sex and…Television! For those of you who are obsessed with the Canadian homo hockey romance Heated Rivalry, here’s a convo for you. Dan and sex therapist Claire Perelman dish, discuss and swoon over the super-horny show. Enjoy!

Mouthwash?

On the Magnum: Ellen Huet- "Empire of Orgasm"
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Happy New Year, and a very happy Feast of the Ass to you and yours. In honor of the holiday, our first caller asks if he should keep a cup of mouthwash handy for when he moves from ass-eating to pussy-eating. A man asks for strategies on how to talk his sister out of circumcising … Read More »

After Action Report #11

...And She Was Wielding Fire
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Christine and her husband went to a kinky viking party (as one does,) and had a very HOT time. “How attached are you to these nipple hairs?” If you have an amazing or appalling story to share, DO NOT KEEP IT TO YOURSELF. Write it up and send it in to [email protected] with the subject … Read More »

1000

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It’s the 1000th episode of the Savage Lovecast. We started in 2006, when George W. Bush was President. And look at us now! We packed this show with as many quick questions as we could. (One minute or less.) And Dan answered as quickly as he could. And! We invited long time friends of the … Read More »

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