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Savage Lovecast Archives for 2023

Television and Queer History, with Matt Baume.

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A woman feels guilty that she’s only interested in tall men. How can she weed out the little fellas?  Our guest this week is author Matt Baume, to discuss his fantastic book “Hi Honey, I’m Homo,” which looks at queer history through the lens of old TV shows. Shows like Soap, Bewitched and All in … Read More »

Freaky, freaky animal kingdom. With zoologist Lucy Cooke.

Episode #866 —
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A gay man is simultaneously weirded out and turned on by using the word “daddy” with his boyfriend. Should he stop immediately?  A woman’s husband cheated on her and it breaks her heart. She can’t divorce him because she would get deported. How can she stay married and stay sane for the next three years … Read More »

The baby findom and the pay pig. (Magnum guest: Meredith Goldstein of Love Letters.)

Episode #865 —
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A small time influencer has just been propositioned by an aspiring “pay pig” asking her to be his findom. He backed up this offer with $5 for coffee. Enticing! Should she do it? And if so, what are the rules in keeping the relationship lucrative and ethical?  The other day? This guy was wanking? And … Read More »

An Unexpected Public Orgasm. (Magnum Guest: Jolenta Greenberg)

Episode #864 —
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A woman suddenly started having orgasms while using the elliptical machine at the gym. To help explain this potentially embarrassing phenomenon, Dan brings on Dr. Debby Herbenick, author of The Coregasm Workout: The Revolutionary Method for Better Sex Through Exercise. And you now have a new goal. A dom woman and her bi male sub … Read More »

So, so, so vanilla? Magnum Guest: Dr. Carlton

Episode #863 —
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A very vanilla woman is so vanilla that she “doesn’t know what a kink is.” That’s really vanilla! Here’s a complicated three-way situation: He is the top with his husband. But he is the sub for his Dom boyfriend. When the three get together, who does what? On the Magnum we welcome back Dr. Carlton … Read More »

Cars ruin everything

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Sex & Politics #20: Daniel Knowles Would you buy an expensive, unhappiness machine? Economist Daniel Knowles (author of “Carmageddon”) makes the case that cars and car culture are a blight on civilization. Dan couldn’t agree more.  How much does Dan hates cars? Hear him fantasize about nuclear war and earthquakes as means to give the … Read More »

A Safely Caged Cock (with Magnum Guest: Mae Martin)

Episode #862 —
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A gay man living in the south is having a heckuva time trying to find a trans man to hook up with. Also he doesn’t want to come across as a chaser… Hear the unpleasant tale of the careless, selfish dom who boxed his lover on the ears twice (after being told not to) and … Read More »

With comedian/writer Zach Zimmerman

Episode #861 —
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Is it feasible to start your pro-Domme career at age 43? This married woman with kids wants to get back in the life.  A lesbian is married to a woman with a Catholic upbringing and actively religious family. They live in a country where they have to pay dues to the church. When her wife … Read More »

Gay Language with Leo Herrera

Episode #860 —
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A theme emerges! Sadly, the theme is seeing your dad’s dick. Would you be able to pick out your dad’s dick in a dick line-up? No, you would not.  A woman’s brother is about to do time for pedophilia. Compounding the tragedies here, the caller has lost all sense of her own sexuality due to … Read More »

Sex and Politics #19: Zoe Strimpel

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You guys, Israel is boiling over! Dan brings on British journalist Zoe Strimpel to talk about what’s going on in Israeli politics right now, and how it compares with the situation in the US. They then veer off to age gap relationships, the phenomenon of the “male hag” and whether Leonardo DiCaprio is one.  This … Read More »

With Mistress Matisse and sex researcher Dr. Lori Brotto.

Episode #859 —
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Have you ever been to a terribly complicated orgy? This one promises to be epic. Hear about the game they invented called “Spin the Bottom.”  A trans woman has started feeling claustrophobic when she goes down on either her male or female partner. Oral is her favorite! What gives?  On the Magnum and the Micro, … Read More »

With Intimacy Coordinator Jessica Steinrock

Episode #857 —
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A couple with adult children wants to start using apps together. The kids know their mom is bi, but they don’t know about the open relationship. What happens if their kid sees them on one of the apps?  Some people need sexy costumes for their scene. Some people need toys or bondage gear. This lady … Read More »

With actor/comedian Paul Scheer

Episode #856 —
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What is up with using the word “cuck” as an insult? Has it replaced “faggot” as the slur of choice? A man has been dating a woman for a few months. He feels they could have long term potential, even with the possibility of children. But! He doesn’t feel a chemical attraction to her pussy … Read More »

Jinkx Monsoon has a message for straight allies.

Episode #855 —
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For the stout of heart, if you dare, hear the tale of shibari bondage gone wrong.   A woman had a nice date with a man she suspects is very short. Then he kind of ghosted her. Should she tell him that she doesn’t care about his height?  Drag mega-star Jinkx Monsoon joins Dan in … Read More »

Butt talk ahoy! With Dr. Evan Goldstein.

Episode #854 —
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A woman masturbates in her sleep. Although she’s currently single, she worries about times when she has to share a room with family or friends. Should she warn them?  A woman’s sister plans to gallivant off to Texas to meet an online lover for the first time, on his rural cattle ranch, for some no-strings-attached … Read More »

Sex & Politics #18: James Kirchick on Armie Hammer

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For this episode of Sex & Politics, Dan brings back writer and podcaster James Kirchick to talk about his interview with Armie Hammer. This is the first interview Hammer has granted after being accused — more than two years ago — of rape, sexual violence, and having cannibalistic fantasies. While there’s an open investigation into … Read More »

We Aren’t Having Enough Sex. With Magdalene Taylor.

Episode #853 —
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Ok, let’s say you don’t drink alcohol. But you do drink piss, right? If your lover drank a bunch of beer and then you drank his piss, did you just drink alcohol?  A woman had an affair with a man she had been very close friends with. His wife found out, and it all blew … Read More »

A squirting mystery.

Episode #852 —
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How do you organize a sex party with your pals- without it being awkward?  Meanwhile, a woman asked her male friend to join her at a swingers hotel takeover. But she has a crush on him, and now regrets asking him to go. Should she bow out?  On the Magnum, sometimes you need a pelvic … Read More »

A very poly Valentine’s Day with Diana Adams

Episode #851 —
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A woman has been with her boyfriend for 4 years. He is so wonderful! But…he doesn’t bother to give her orgasms. He has all the orgasms! As many as he wants. Orgasm, orgasm, orgasm. He won’t do anything to get her there. Has she talked to him about this? Yes! She has! He doesn’t care. … Read More »

How to Talk Gay With Zach Noe Towers

Episode #850 —
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Your place or mine? A recently divorced woman wants to sleep around. Is it safer to have  men come to her house, or should she go to theirs? A married man remembers a fling he had decades ago. But it’s a bit of a blur. They were drinking, but he vaguely remembers not wearing a … Read More »

With Damona Hoffman of “Dates & Mates.”

Episode #849 —
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A tortured, indecisive woman is on the fence about whether to continue her relationship with her husband of 11 years. Every day she wakes up wondering, “Is this right?” Is this normal?  Hear the cautionary tale of the professional cuddler in an ethically non-monogamous relationship with a would-be dom and his much, much younger co-worker. … Read More »

“Ask a Sub’s” Lina Dune on social media censorship.

Episode #848 —
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A man wants to partake in some orgies with his girlfriend. But he loses his erection when there are other men in the room. How can he teach his boner to come out and play?  Meanwhile, a man in a 6-year relationship hasn’t had sex in the past 3 years because his girlfriend just doesn’t … Read More »

With Samantha Cole on Sex and the Internet.

Episode #847 —
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A woman remembers with shame how she reacted when her then-boyfriend came out to her as bisexual. She hasn’t talked to him in 9 years and wants to apologize. Should she? How?  For you sci-fi pervs, what happens to the “eggs” that get deposited with an ovipositor dildo?  On the Magnum, Dan chats with Samantha … Read More »

Listen to Dan on “The Ezra Klein Show”

Dan joined renowned journalist and NY Times columnist Ezra Klein on his eponymous podcast to discuss how sex and relationships have changed during the tenure of “Savage Love.” Ezra begins by saying, “How do you introduce Dan Savage? …I think it’s maybe inarguable to say he’s the most important sex advice columnist in the country … Read More »

Happy Feast of the Ass!

Episode #846 —
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A woman is head over heels in love with her new boyfriend. He is a cross-dresser and they both enjoy exploring this kink together. The problem? He isn’t interested in having sex with her and it’s shredding her self-confidence.  A man is seeing two women in a poly triad. The second woman struggles to feel … Read More »

Tackling grief with humor: Jason Roeder of “Griefstrike.”

Episode #845 —
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Happy New Year dear listeners!  Things are starting off great! A listener discovered an old journal left behind from her newly ex-boyfriend. It contained erotic fantasies about a previous girlfriend’s…daughters. So, the conundrum: Should the caller tell his ex about his written fantasies? Should she burn it and forget the whole thing? Or calmly hand … Read More »

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