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Savage Lovecast Archives for 2018

Hemorrhoids for Christmas.

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Gather round the Lovecast Christmas tree children, and see what audio gifts we have for you! Why, here’s a question from a power bottom who pees when he gets fucked! And look! A woman’s boyfriend won’t use sex toys on her if they’ve been used before. Should she ask Santa to get her some brand … Read More »

Doggity Style!

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Dear Australia, Hi! This is the Savage Lovecast. Listen. Do you guys refer to the very common sexual position where a man enters a woman from behind while she is on all fours as …”Doggity Style?” No? We didn’t think so. (Both Dan and Nancy are gobsmacked by this call.) A man’s friend has been … Read More »

Welcome to the Real Doll Brothel.

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A woman had sex with a pre-op transwoman. But she didn’t make the caller come, or even try. Now the caller wonders if this is a “vagina-bodied” vs “non vagina-bodied” problem, or just a “jerk” problem. A married gay man with kids begs Dan for a quick n’ dirty guide on how to add a … Read More »

Why aren’t young people doing it? With The Atlantic’s Kate Julian.

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A man has tried group sex a couple times. But when he shows up his dick doesn’t. What is going on here? Oh this story! A girl started seeing her therapist at age 17. At age 19, she confessed to her 45 year-old therapist that she loved him. So, naturally he told her that he … Read More »

With Stormy Daniels!

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Well looky who blew into town! Stormy Daniels came on over to our studio to answer callers’ questions about blow jobs, toxic men, protecting the male ego and other hazards. Stormy and Dan got on like a house on fire, and you must listen to it. A couple questions are on the Micro version and … Read More »

How evangelical Christianity harms women. With author Linda Kay Klein.

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We have a word for a woman who sleeps with a straight couple. That’s a unicorn, of course. But what should we call a man who provides the same service? Cuz we have a male caller who is totally down. A woman has reconnected with an old high school chum. The friend immediately asked the … Read More »

Drinking in Moderation?!

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Here in Seattle, we have a sportsball team called “The Sounders.” On the Savage Lovecast, well, it’s another matter altogether. Oh look! It’s Nancy, putting the men who fear/refuse vasectomies on blast. Dan’s on your side, fellas. Nancy is not. On the Magnum, a caller has hit rock bottom and quit drinking. But he wonders … Read More »

Strap it on… with Tristan Taormino!

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A woman has been with her fiancé for 4 years. All of a sudden, out of nowhere, he’s started moaning and groaning in bed like a porn starlet. Why the sudden vocalizations? IS HE CHEATING ON HER? An asexual, non-binary person feels like an invader when they show up at BDSM parties. Is it alright … Read More »

Is there a urologist in the house?

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A sugar baby has fallen in love with her sugar daddy. He loves her too! Except, he kind of doesn’t want her to meet his actual daughter. Does she have the right to demand it? A coach at a college has been asked to drive one of her students to get an abortion. Because of … Read More »

With Justin Lehmiller & Parker Molloy

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In the intro, Dan and blogger/trans rights activist Parker Molloy fume over 45’s latest anti-trans bluster. A straight man who is apparently just learning some basic facts about our world, wants to know: Do gays ever get divorced? On the Magnum, things get a bit more complicated. Dan interviews Dr. Justin Lehmiller, author of “Tell … Read More »

A bipolar deep dive with Ellen Forney.

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A couple adopted a disturbed dog, hell-bent on destroying their sex life! It jumps on the bed, and barks when they try to get busy, and whimpers, barks and whines when left outside the door. Dan “Dog Whisperer” Savage leaps to the rescue. Speaking of mental illness, Ellen Forney, the brilliant cartoonist behind “Marbles” is … Read More »

Ok Seriously. What is up with Adult Babies?

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If you found out that your gal pal in her 20s had a hook up with a 17 year-old lad, would you call the cops on her? Should you? Ok, seriously. What is up with adult babies? Dan interviews Lo, of the Dream a Little podcast exploring the relationships between folks who get off on … Read More »

Are Sugar Babies Sex Workers?

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A married couple’s teen daughter gets super-irritated when her parents have noisy sex. She sends them snarky texts imploring them to stop. Maybe she includes an eye-rolling emoji or a throwing-up kitten or some such teenaged thing. The dad in this couple doesn’t want to “break her.” What does Dan Savage have to say? Our … Read More »

With Lizz Winstead of The Daily Show!

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Parents, hear this cautionary tale: A man has been in his loving, kinky, poly marriage for 21 years. His wife accidentally clicked the wrong button and synched up her super gnarly BDSM pics onto her 9 year-old daughter’s phone. So now there’s some ‘splaining to do. A woman lives in an apartment building in NYC. … Read More »

Bad Blood

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A young woman’s boyfriend regularly gets her sexually aroused and then rolls over and goes to sleep without finishing the job. And then they fight. Why would he do this? A young gay man doesn’t understand why his fuckbuddy only texts him when he wants to…well, fuck. On the Magnum: If you are a gay … Read More »

With Guy Branum.

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A woman’s mother died last year. Her dad is dating someone new. The caller and her siblings just aren’t ready to welcome their dad’s girlfriend into their lives, let alone include her at Christmas. The caller feels she has to choose between her siblings and her father. Tough times, these. A straight man felt slighted … Read More »

Just like bunnies!

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We start this week’s adventure with a couple who have a secret unicorn at their beck and call. The wife in the couple doesn’t want anyone to know. But the unicorn lass has already told some friends and wants to be more open about the relationship. Who will win this one? A 27 year-old woman … Read More »

Mindfulness: The female Viagra?

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A woman got together with what seemed to be the perfect man for her. Kinky. Into spanking. And social justice! But after they got together she discovered that he is really the married pastor of a conservative mega-church. Dan counsels her on whether to unmask this lying creep. A gay man came out late in … Read More »

Pineapples!

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Come hear the sordid tale of the couple who invited a woman over, only to have her wet the bed so thoroughly that she soaked right through to the mattress. Bad unicorn! Erika Moen of “Oh Joy Sex Toy?” is on to review her husband’s fave new toy. What could it be? On the Magnum, … Read More »

Sub Drop

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A woman keeps dating men who hide her and won’t acknowledge that she exists on social media. What on earth is going on here? A woman knows that her personal trainer is a Christian. But is he the good kind or the bad kind? Should she find out before she continues her patronage? On the … Read More »

Abortion in the Bible?

“Dan? If someone sticks a lollypop in my vagina, will I get a yeast infection?” Sincerely, the very first caller. A married woman was horrified to discover raunchy pics of her husband’s first cousin on his phone. Would this horrify you? On the Magnum, did you know that you can find instructions for a home … Read More »

Meet the lesbian panel!

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A woman who lives in a group house likes listening in when someone is having sex near her. Handwringing ensues. Is this unethical? Should she feel guilty? Should she stop? A woman who has gone from eating way too little to eating way too much, wrestles with how to talk about the diminishing sex with … Read More »

How to date when you study sex. With Dr. Debby Herbenick.

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A lesbian is a divorcée at age 20. How can she tell her future girlfriends that she had spectacularly bad judgement when she was of a tender age? Hey everyone! Meet Jason, the offended gay Christian! He wishes Dan wouldn’t be so derisive of religion. Dan has an answer for him. On the Magnum, a … Read More »

A poly deep dive…

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A liberal, PC, feminist, woke man loves to humiliate, slap and call women sluts in the bedroom. (Always consensually.) How can he reconcile the two opposing sides of his personality? A woman and her husband have befriended another family in their new town. The couple revealed that the man is a transman, and that she … Read More »

Sexual Fantasies: What are people really thinking about?

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A woman has started up with a great new guy. The problem? He kisses “like a robot.” And not a sexy robot! How can she train him to kiss properly? A man’s daughter is non-binary, and dating another non-binary. When they have sleep-overs should the father worry about his daughter when her partner is in … Read More »

Is porn getting more and more violent?

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A woman’s boss did something so nasty that she successfully prosecuted him and got him on the sex offender registry. But how can she get a new job with such an uncomfortable story to tell about her last one? Dan brings on Rob Walker, a.k.a. The Workologist from the New York Times to strategize. A … Read More »

Where do kinks come from?

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A woman had offered an Amazon delivery guy a drink of water in her house, and gave him her phone number. One year later he started sending her nasty messages and dick pics. Should she report him to his employer? Call the cops? A divorced man’s 13 year-old daughter came out to him as a … Read More »

With Ellie and Leigh from the Lez Hang Out Podcast!

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A kinky woman is sick and tired of men assuming she’s a horny slut ready for anything at any time. How can she explain in her dating profiles that she’s kinky AND discerning? A woman was hanging out fishing with her old high school buddy when the buddy asked, “So is it true you like … Read More »

Mom! I told you NOT to go through my backpack!

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Mom discovered a portable pussy sex toy in her teenaged son’s backpack. Are you a mother? Do you plan to be one someday? What will you do when you discover a portable pussy in your teenaged son’s backpack? A man and his girlfriend see each other every few months. And when they do, hoo boy! … Read More »

Ask a Fuck-Up.

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A woman was chilling with her male friend, you know, the way friends do, and sure, he wishes they were a couple, but she’s not into him that way, so anyway, she invited him over after some drinking and masturbated in front of him, you know, the way friends do, except now things are weird? … Read More »

Erotica by and for women? Yes please…

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A 60 year-old man has been dating a woman for 4 months. He wishes she would lose some weight. Oh, and also? She lost her breasts to cancer. Does he have the right to ask her to get a boob job too? Sidle up, dear listener, and hear the tale of the woman, her much … Read More »

Is it racist to be a rice queen?

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A white man is dating an Asian man and tends to be attracted to Asian men. Does this make him a rice queen? Is it racist to be a rice queen? Can he learn to feel attraction toward other races? A straight man has a great girlfriend except for one little problem. She gives painful … Read More »

Dating an asexual.

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A woman’s husband installed a hidden camera in their house. We aren’t saying WHERE he installed it, but you should know that this call made us take off our headphones for a second. As a young man navigates through his dating life, he finds that the girls he’s really attracted to ghost him, and the … Read More »

Male escorting- a sociological study.

A married man and his wife are planning some swinging fun times. But one of the people who responded to his anonymous post is his high school pal! Should he tell her who he is? That he knows who she is? Oh my god, this could be SO EMBARRASSING. A woman and her boyfriend used … Read More »

With Sunny and Ken from the American Sex Podcast.

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You guys? We’ve been making this podcast for 600 episodes. How do we celebrate? By talking about pee pee! A woman who is about to get married is having a total freak-out affair! She’s been seeing her lover for only 3 months, but she’s convinced it’s true love. Should she call off the wedding? A … Read More »

Poly, poly, poly! with Cunning Minx.

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“Dear Dan. What is up with cock rings?” Dan is all too delighted to answer. A married woman is in an open relationship, and hooks up with a friend of theirs. This “lover” doesn’t make her come. Rather, after her insufficient sessions with him, she returns home to her husband who gets the job done. … Read More »

Mistress Matisse on the dreadful SESTA/FOSTA bill.

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The kindly mother of a 12 year-old boy wonders if she should discreetly leave some lube by his bed as he learns to love him himself fully. A woman is horrified to discover that her hook-up doesn’t have sheets on the bed. “The bed is no good,” she laments. Should she see him again? Is … Read More »

Maintaining Sexual Desire in Long Term Relationships.

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A woman went on a date, and everything went so well. Until…he disappeared without a trace. Did this man truly turn into a ghost? Dan calls her back and gets the full story. On the Magnum, for a “What You Got?” Dan chats with Kristen Mark on how to maintain sexual desire in long term … Read More »

The Urologist is IN.

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A straight man is having a hard time getting laid. His female friends tell him he has to be more aggressive and less respectful with the ladies. Dan weighs in. The “baby” in a baby/daddy relationship is jealous because her daddy is getting it on with a couple and not inviting her. No, crying is … Read More »

Stop SESTA!

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A trans man is losing his hair and worries that he won’t be able to rock the hyper-masculine bald guy look. Can you be sweet, sexy and bald all at the same time? Dogs! Sex! These two topics come together not once, but three times on this very show. On the Magnum, Dan speaks with … Read More »

The neighbor and the négligé.

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After 10 years of marriage, a man is dismayed to admit that he married a jizz-hater. His wife detests the stuff and doesn’t want to be anywhere near it. What is the solution? The ever-delightful and intrepid Erika Moen of “Oh Joy Sex Toy” is on to discuss a sex toy that will send you … Read More »

F*ck Yes!

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A straight man knows he has the dreaded Madonna/Whore Complex. But how can he overcome it? A 47 year-old woman has just started working at a sex toy store, and loves her funky, kinky co-workers. But she’s scared to invite them to her wedding for fear that mommy and daddy won’t approve. On the Magnum, … Read More »

Teen Sexting = big trouble.

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A woman gave her husband permission to see an escort when he was out of town. But she didn’t give him permission to spend a small fortune on her!! An open-minded straight man has had quite enough with the sexual cavorting that takes place in his gym’s hot tub, thank you very much! Is he … Read More »

With Caitlin Doughty and Roxane Gay

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A gay man’s boyfriend insists on showering just before sex, every single time. But the caller likes a little funk! How can they reconcile this fundamental difference. Dan’s answer is sneaky. Don’t be alarmed, but one of this week’s questions requires the expertise of a mortician. On the Magnum, Dan enlists New York Times rival … Read More »

A gay cuckolding study with Dr. Justin Lehmiller

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A woman is worried that a couple she’s friends with will ask her and her husband to swing. How can she politely tell them that she and her husband don’t roll that way? A man’s new boyfriend is so wonderful! Their relationship is beautiful and amazing. Unfortunately, he is also a homeless, lying meth-head. How … Read More »

Robotic pornographers with Erika Lust.

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A female college student is busy planning her orgy. She wants to make sure the night is comfortable, fun and safe, with minimal awkwardness. Dan Savage, (the Martha Stewart of orgy planning,) is here to help. A man’s good (female) friend is planning to go on a date with one of his acquaintances. What the … Read More »

The Art of the Solicited Dick Pic.

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Gather round, and hear two nasty tales of violent, crazy girlfriends. Would you date someone who painted all over your sheets and poured liquor on your clothes? You would? Oh, never mind then. On the Magnum, Dan chats with Nicole Mazzeo, founder of Pleasure Pie and creator of “The Art of the Solicited Dick Pic” … Read More »

Whoa, no way! It’s Sarah Silverman!

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This week Dan caught up with Sarah Silverman to chat about her show “I Love You America.” They also answered some callers’ questions about conquering jealousy, and kids sticking things in their butts, among other things. She is a superior human and you should listen to the whole thing. A sub woman has been chatting … Read More »

With Cecile Richards, President of Planned Parenthood.

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This week is no big deal. Our guest is just Cecile Richards, the PRESIDENT OF PLANNED PARENTHOOD. She graciously joined us to discuss her mighty organization, the battle they do daily to provide sexual health, and to answer a question about a woman’s yucky Trump-supportin’ mama. If, by some weird fluke you have not yet … Read More »

A sex toy to help you DO YOUR KEGELS.

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A man is into being tied up and pegged. But his wife finds it dull, tedious, boring and stultifying. Should he give up on the idea, or find a way to convince his wife that she could have some fun here. Oh no! More S&M trouble! A woman had a great date with a hot … Read More »

Black bottoming with sexy Marquis.

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A woman is facing old school, mild harassment at her law firm, of all places. How can she learn to shut these men down without looking like a Grumpy Gertie? A man is dating a new woman who seems great. But! She reminds him so much of his abusive ex, that he can’t even. Should … Read More »