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Savage Lovecast Archives for 2017

Luke Burbank is utterly delightful!

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A woman struggles to advise her friend who is intolerant of her husband watching a little porn. Hear the dark drama of a gay man who made plans to get tied up by a stranger. All hail Luke Burbank! The clever and kindly host of TBTL and Live Wire Radio demeans himself to discuss open … Read More »

How to flirt and not be a dick. With Vonny Leclerc.

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A woman’s 13 year-old brother wants to shave his crotch. And now mom is FREAKING OUT and the whole family is in disarray over the pubes she found in the sink! A straight couple gets recognized in a bar from an online profile they placed together a long time ago. The woman in the couple … Read More »

Let’s Play “Spot the Abuser!” with Lynn Fairweather.

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The kinksters have their “aftercare”- time after a rough sexual encounter to reconnect and comfort each other. But what about after casual vanilla sex? A woman wants to instigate an aftercare revolution for all. Dan gently, patiently explains away some men’s rights nonsense to a man incensed at at a fictional “double standard.” On the … Read More »

With stand-up comedian Cameron Esposito. Also, Take My Kidney…Please!

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A man is enjoying his new cool girlfriend. The thing is? She isn’t an insane lunatic like his other girlfriends. Is this a problem? Oh man. This one’s good. Should a woman accept her ex’s offer to give his KIDNEY to her desperately ill father? Will there be strings attached? Oh my god? On the … Read More »

With Google powerhouse, Blaise Agüera y Arcas.

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“Why won’t my girlfriend go down on me, why?!” asks this nice man, who goes down on her plenty. Does she not like it? What? Nancy and Dan wring their hands together about words, and Nancy reveals something truly horrible about herself. On the Magnum, Dan and Google’s powerhouse Distinguished Scientist Blaise Agüera y Arcas … Read More »

Look out, Monogamy. Here comes Esther Perel.

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A married man is deliciously conflicted as his wife sleeps with women. It turns him on at first, but then jealousy and resentment settle in. How to reconcile? A woman newly broken up with her boyfriend has some recent boudoir photos kicking around. Should she send them to him? On the Magnum, listen in on … Read More »

Get Thee to a Therapist, Go. With Buck Angel.

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Gather round the circle listeners, as Dan invokes the serenity prayer to council a woman who is being trolled by her neighbor’s WiFi network name. A trans man who has not yet begun his transition, is angry and frustrated that he can’t find any gay men who are interested in him. Buck Angel, (a.k.a the … Read More »

The WEED Episode with David Schmader.

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Fire up a giant J-bone, brothers and sisters cuz it’s the WEED EPISODE. With professional marijuana enthusiast David Schmader -author of “Weed: A User’s Guide.” David joined us in our studio to talk about how marijuana can enhance sex, what strains are the sexiest, what to do if you NEED marijuana to get off, and … Read More »

With Mayor Betsy Hodges.

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A woman from the UK wonders why Americans are so quick to commit to each other after just a little bit of sex. Dan’s history lesson explains it all. A woman and her husband are into hot-spousing. It’s been super-fun and brought them closer together as a couple. But her husband gets racked with guilt … Read More »

With victims’ rights avenger Carrie Goldberg.

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A married woman is totally accepting of her husband’s newfound love of cross-dressing. But! She wishes he wouldn’t borrow HER clothes. Dan interviews high powered lawyer Carrie Goldberg about her work prosecuting online harassers, revenge pornography and domestic violence abusers. She is a hero. On the Magnum, how can a woman stop masturbating to thoughts … Read More »

The Nanny and the Handyman.

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A woman has been monogamous with her boyfriend for 5 years. But she really wants to fuck the Swedish handyman. Should she fuck the Swedish handyman? A white woman and her boyfriend are into the whole Japanese schoolgirl thing. Is this racist? Is it wrong? On the Magnum, Dan interviews Carsie Blanton, creator of a … Read More »

Wonder Woman!

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The Kissing Clause: should kissing come standard in a relationship? Dan interviews Angela Robinson, the director of “Professor Marsten and the Wonder Women”- a bio-pic about the poly, Dom/sub, super-freak creator of the Wonder Woman comics. On the Magnum, a woman’s male co-worker is getting pimped out against his will by his boyfriend. Dan brings … Read More »

Sex Toy Review! This one’s HEAVY.

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Darling? Whatever shall we do at our coming trip to the Bondage Bed & Breakfast? A married woman gets busted by her husband for camming. She doesn’t consider it cheating, and it gets her so, so horny. How can she reconcile with her husband and still get her camming rocks off? On the magnum, Dan … Read More »

With Eli Finkel, author of “The All-or-Nothing Marriage.”

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A woman is considering finding herself a sugar daddy to make ends meet. Should she tell her boyfriend? A man has a friendly relationship with his ex-girlfriend. He just doesn’t want to see her and her new man splattered all over his social media. Would it be petty to mute her for a while? On … Read More »

This show begins and ends with circumcision.

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This show begins and ends with circumcision. A woman is dating her first uncut man and wonders if Dan has any… tips. Then, at the end of the Magnum, an uncut man who is into “pig play” (that’s dick-stank- you’re welcome,) wonders if he should get himself an adult circumcision. So there’s that to ponder. … Read More »

Don’t sleep with comedians.

A woman offers proof that sexual harassment is about power. One of her students, a gay man, sexually harasses her regularly. Why would he do this? A fetish too far: A woman’s boyfriend can only get off if they are doing play simulating kidnapping, bondage and human trafficking. She broke up with him because she … Read More »

All about your father’s penis.

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A couple are dismayed that the condom keeps slipping off when they’re doing it doggie style. Dan offers some time-honored tricks. Disability Awareness Consultant Andrew Gurza, schools us all about dating folks with disabilities. On the Magnum, Dan chats with author Jesse Bering about penis size and natural selection. Science! And speaking of penises, can … Read More »

Parents of teens: we feel you.

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We start the show with a cavalcade of yucky calls about Nazis! Can a dom command his sub to come? Does this really happen? On the Magnum, Dan answers a bunch of calls from parents of teens with Deb Hauser, President of Advocates for Youth. 206-302-2064

Women in gay bars. We have a problem.

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What do you do when your best friend is dating a con man? A woman has been with her boyfriend for a year. He has a key to her apartment, and regularly lets himself in when she isn’t there, even though she told him not to. How big of a problem do we have here? … Read More »

The science of DTMFA.

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A seemingly kind man only gets off when his girlfriend is in pain. She noticed this and plays it up to please him. Don’t tell him this, but she isn’t in pain. She loves it. But what if her acting skills fail? A woman has started dating a man who travels a lot and has … Read More »

Your medical questions answered by Planned Parenthood!

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On the opening rant: Coming Out 101. What happens next? A mother’s pre-teen daughter wants to wear a leather S&M-style choker. How can mom explain why this might not be a good idea? For both the Magnum and the Micro version we were honored to have Dr. Sara Pentlicky from Planned Parenthood in the studio … Read More »

Mollena Williams on sub space.

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If your boyfriend wants you to help him to film women so he can scratch his voyeur itch, is there an ethical way to do this? Hear the sordid tale of the the woman who wants to call Child Protective Services on her own damn boyfriend. On the Magnum, Dan chats with writer and BDSM … Read More »

Jon Ronson on bespoke porn and sexy stamps.

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A gay man hooked up with a hot guy- great lover. But his micro-penis made the caller wonder if his lover was perhaps a transman. Should he ask him? Does it matter? A man’s ten year-old son has come out as gay. The worried father bemoans his child’s fate living on the “margins of society.” … Read More »

Amanda Marcotte on “Game of Thrones.”

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A man’s girlfriend won’t let him watch Game of Thrones due to all the violence against women. Does she have the right? Should we all be boycotting the show? Salon’s Amanda Marcotte is here to weigh in. A lesbian is exploring dom/sub play with her girlfriend. Her girlfriend wants her to talk dirty and tell … Read More »

Buck Angel!

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If your Tinder guy can’t get it up, should you move on, or give him a chance? A woman is dating a man 13 years her senior. Is this sort of age difference inherently immoral because…Woody Allen? On the Magnum, a deep dive into trans world with Buck Angel (a.k.a. The Man with a Pussy.) … Read More »

Mistress Matisse and her Velvet Swing

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A gay marine wants to keep his dick locked up in a chastity cage. His problem is…wait. Isn’t that first sentence enough for you? A straight man has noticed that ALL of his friends are into feet. Why would this be? On the Magnum we welcome Mistress Matisse, to talk about her new magical lube. … Read More »

An interview with the author of “Everybody Lies.”

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A man is just about to end his Grindr relationship with a dude whose girlfriend knows nothing of his exploits. Should he drop the info on this poor girl before he leaves town? Dan interviews Seth Davidowitz, author of “Everybody Lies: Big Data, New Data and What the Internet Can Tell Us About Who We … Read More »

Michael Hobbes on gay, middle-aged dating.

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Wait. Are public orgasms ok now? A man and his girlfriend observed a woman having one, right there, out on the street, in broad daylight. A gay man broke one of his rules. His boyfriend is still closeted to his family, and when they come to town, the caller has to clear out. Can this … Read More »

Where are the kinky parties?

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A woman is engaged to be married. She has been with about 80 lovers, and he has never been with anyone but her. He begs her to tell him all about her adventures to the point of obsession. Why does he wants to hear it all, and does she have to tell him? A man … Read More »

Going Gay for One Drunken Night.

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A woman wants to try a three-way. But all the posts online are riddled with spelling and grammar errors. (Not sexy!) How can she forge a more classy connection? A woman has been with her fiancé for 5 years. He loves to play with her nipples, but she hates it. And guess what? She has … Read More »

with Rachel Lark

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Oh, that nasty chef! A woman works in a restaurant where her manager is having an affair with the married chef. Sometimes the caller has to serve the chef’s poor innocent wife. It’s so cruel that all the servers are about to revolt. A married man harbors a cuckolding fantasy. He is certain his wife … Read More »

Nathaniel Frank on gay marriage.

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A straight male weight-lifter likes to shave his chest and pits. His friends are giving him grief about it. How can this sensitive strongman get over the peer pressure and revel in his smooth, smooth body? A gay man’s foster son has had a rough life. And now he realizes they are both on Grindr. … Read More »

So many sex toys!

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A man and a woman used to date, but now they’re just friends. The woman got married and doesn’t want her rich husband to know that she used to date the caller. Is it because she’s embarrassed that the caller doesn’t make enough money? From three-way to third wheel…a gay man with a long term … Read More »

Blow jobs and TMJ

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A couple of ex-Mormons started dating. He broke up with her because she wasn’t “nice.” But don’t worry everybody- he immediately came back to her. Then he broke up with her again, because he’s gay. But it’s ok! He changed his mind on that as well and came back to her. Now he isn’t sure … Read More »

Rachel Bloom

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A gay man living in Jerusalem wants to get with one of the orthodox guys who are always furtively eyeing him. But how can he make his move? A married man in an open relationship is SO BUSTED when he installs recording devices in his wife’s room when she’s having a man over. How can … Read More »

Cuckolding with Ben Steel.

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A man has been with his lady for one year. She has lost her sex drive, and asks for him to find ways to limit his libido. Should they try counseling? Meditation? Chemical castration? Or maybe there’s another option… A gay man and his straight friend used to fool around together when they were children. … Read More »

Dr. Rachel Gelman

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A woman’s in-laws have 12 cats. They won’t travel to see the caller’s family (including the 2 small children,) because they can’t bear to leave the mewling kitties. Are they mentally ill and is there any way to explain this behavior to the kids? A bondage-loving lass goes to clubs and gets tied up by … Read More »

Marc Andreyko from Love is Love.

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Gather round, Lovecast listeners. Hear the tale of the pansexual housecleaner and the nasty surprise. Can a giant penis instigate menstrual bleeding? Is there anything a giant penis can’t do? Ob/gyn and activist Leah Torres, is here to answer. On the Magnum, Dan speaks with Marc Andreyko, creator of Love is Love: the beautiful, heart-rending … Read More »

Who’s happier: Monogamous or open couples?

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A man gets turned on by the sight of his girlfriend smoking. The problem is, she doesn’t smoke. We get our monthly sex toy review by the delightful (and knowledgable) Erika Moen. This week: a big ole vibrator called The Doxy. On the Magnum, Dan interviews Dr. Terri Conley in a “What You Got?” about … Read More »

Minda Honey

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A straight man is into pre-op transwomen in an odd way. He wants nothing to do with their penises, but just likes knowing they’re there. In another penis obsessed call, a man with big ‘un is dismayed when a lady fails to swoon at the sight of his flaccid dong. Doesn’t she know about showers … Read More »

Cannibal Cop

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A woman’s father is planning to go to Russia to fetch his new mail-order bride. How can the caller convince her delusional father that this is not such a good idea? Hear the sordid tale of the Ambien-befuddled, drunky, but also kind of hot step-mother who came on to her step-son in a most aggressive … Read More »

Michael Hobbes and Amanda Marcotte

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For all you Belle fans out there, a little advice: For god’s sake, don’t sleep with the beast! Dan and Salon journalist Amanda Marcotte tear down Disney’s latest. Dan consoles a man whose employee immediately slept with his ex-girlfriend, right after they broke up. People! On the Magnum, Dan chats (at length) with Michael Hobbes … Read More »

With Lindsey Doe from “Sexplanations.”

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Are you, (or is someone you love) stuck in a region which refuses to teach realistic sex ed? Never fear, Lindsey Doe from the YouTube channel “Sexplanations” is here to infiltrate and educate. She’s our new fave, and you will love her. She and Dan talk about explaining porn to kids, nudist households, and actionable … Read More »

When your partner has BPD.

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A woman’s 61 year-old father confided that he has discovered kink. Should she help to connect him to kink resources when she herself is vanilla, and also…his daughter? A man worries that his attraction to East-Indian women might be racist. Dan helps unpack the complicated issues around attraction to specific races. On the Magnum, Dan … Read More »

With pro dom Justine Cross

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A gay man has had small breasts ever since he was a kid. His lovers aren’t so into it. He doesn’t want to get them removed because he feels they are a part of him. How should he explain his extra bells and whistles? A woman getting into bondage wonders how to communicate a safe … Read More »

The Neuroscience of Orgasm

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A couple tricky pregnancy situations on this show: A newly pregnant woman has discovered that her boyfriend snoops through her personal stuff with no apology. Should she dump him and embrace single motherhood? Our other pregnant woman misjudged the timing, and now has the unenviable duty of telling her current boyfriend that he is probably … Read More »

Poly Life with Cunning Minx

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A man’s girlfriend moved to NYC to become a ballerina. But instead she’s been boozing and eating food! Is it his place to tell her that ballerinas don’t actually, you know, eat? A transwoman has moved heaven and earth to get herself through college, despite her parents cutting her off. But then! Her school sent … Read More »

Lesbians and Syrian Refugees

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A married Canadian lesbian is about to meet the Syrian refugees that her parents are hosting. But she worries that they will not approve of gay people. How should she present herself and her wife to these traumatized people from a different culture? A woman gets strep throat every time she gives head. What the … Read More »

Sex Toy Review: Silver Bullet!

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“Boyfriend, boyfriend, there’s a lump in your testicle!” Should the caller deliver this news bluntly or keep her discovery to herself? A mother’s 9-year old son wants to be a stripper when he grows up. How can this mom advise him and keep her cool? Erika Moen from Oh Joy Sex Toy is on for … Read More »

Fuck Trump.

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We are totally Trumping it up this week, guys. First Dan explains why it could be possible that DT is into piss despite his claim of being a germo-phobe. He gets an assist from The Gist’s Mike Pesca. Then! Angel Padilla from the brilliant Indivisible Guide explains how to use Tea Party tactics against the … Read More »

The pleasures and dangers of choking.

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A man’s friend came out when they were in high school. Now after a sojourn to the desert to “pray away the gay” the tortured closet case is “church hunting for a bride.” Can his pal talk him out of this? A woman’s co-worker tried to kiss her at work, despite her unrelentingly professional demeanor, … Read More »

Nancy weighs in.

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A 45 year-old man has observed his 21 year-old niece putting up suggestive pics on Instagram. Would it be the correct avuncular gesture to talk to his niece about the folly of her actions? Meanwhile, a woman’s boyfriend’s cousin called her a “fuckin’ bitch” when she wrecked him at laser tag. Her boyfriend won’t defend … Read More »