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Savage Lovecast Archives for 2019

The Origins of Herpes Hysteria.

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It’s kind of the bad actors show. A biting biter bit her boyfriend and drew blood. He didn’t like it, so she calls him a baby. A dude wonders if can catch a contact high from sleeping with someone who is on meth. A man is miffed because a couple who came to the wedding … Read More »

Octopus??? At Costco???

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A formerly repressed man is discovering his wild side. He and his wife like to do it in quasi-public in the mountains. He just got her a remote controlled vibrator, and wants to see if he can get her off in a restaurant. But is this ethical? Will people notice? Dan interviews the co-author of … Read More »

Erika Moen’s holiday sex toy picks!

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The show begins with an insecurity vampire. You know the kind. A person who sucks you dry with their endless need for praise and reassurance. This man is dating one, but is she entirely to blame? It’s complicated. And, it’s a wedding battle royale! In one corner we have our caller getting married to a … Read More »

Lock him up! Chastity cages, with Dr. Ashley Winter.

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Hot tubs. Are they a safe, relaxing haven or a menacing vector of disease? Here’s a poly peril. What do you do when you really, really don’t like your boyfriend’s other boyfriend? On the Magnum, all of your chastity cage questions are answered, including “Chastity cages? What are you even talking about?” Dr. Ashley Winter … Read More »

Meet the woman who read ALL of Dan’s columns since 1991.

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A man went on a date and he felt fireworks. But later that she told him that wasn’t feeling it, but wants to be friends. He doesn’t need friends. He already has friends. Should he bother? This question is pretty simple. Her new lover has a gargantuan penis that is shaped like a sweet potato. … Read More »

Shy lady doms rise up! With Midori.

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A man is getting re-married. Is it shoddy to use the same officiant as his first wedding? Dan talks to a woman who had a blurry encounter with another woman as a very sexually repressed Christian school. Her lover called it rape the next day. It’s been ten years, and in this #MeToo era, the … Read More »

With Sex Workers’ Rights Advocate- Elle Stanger.

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A woman wants her boyfriend to pee inside of her. Cool, cool. But he is pee shy! How can he get over it? A woman and her man love threesomes with women. But they don’t want kids. Should they warn their unicorn that if she happens to get knocked up they will have no part … Read More »

With token straight man, Michael Ian Black.

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A tale of two subs: What to do when both people in a couple are submissive? Find one dom to rule them all? Take turns? A woman is super-duper annoyed that her Trump-lovin’ brother is throwing a gender reveal party. Are they inherently unacceptable? On the Magnum version of the show, Dan casts about for … Read More »

Is drag over? AW HELL NO! With Simon Doonan.

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A woman was apparently dating Genghis Khan. He told her he had had a vasectomy, but she got pregnant anyway. And so had a bunch of other women he dated. Her lawyer says she has a battery case. Her friends tell her to chill out. What do you think? A married woman has a very … Read More »

It’s the food poisoning episode!

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A woman has vowed to never date a Trump voter. But she lives in a small conservative town, and she’s getting lonely… A woman did some sex work a couple years ago. She’s dating someone new and wonders if, when or how to tell him. On the Magnum, Dan chats with Joan Price, author of … Read More »

Love Your Curvy Body! With Elle Chase.

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An open-minded but shy woman has a gaggle of friends who all talk about sticking their fingers in their boyfriends butts to everyone’s delight. But the caller isn’t into it. Is she depriving her boyfriend of this singular pleasure? A woman got a tattoo and felt turned on by the experience. Her husband reaped the … Read More »

Bi women and weed.

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An anonymous LinkedIn contact has asked a woman if she would be his FinDom. He would give her money every week in a form of submission to her. But he refuses to reveal his identity. Should she take him up on it? Would you? A gay man has an out-of-town friend who is straight, conservative … Read More »

Mob Queens with Michael Seligman

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It’s your typical story: Man has sex with girl who has only 2 fingers on one of her hands. Man never calls girl again because he only wanted casual sex anyway. Years later, man feels guilty for not calling girl with disability because he worries she will think he ghosted her because of her weird … Read More »

Kink by Gender, with Dr. Justin Lehmiller.

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A married woman has just hosted her mother-in-law in their small apartment. After seeing her husband and his mother interact, she just doesn’t fell like having any sex at all. How can she clear out the in-law vibes? Morning! A woman emerges from sleep in the full throes of an orgasm. But her dream was … Read More »

Dental Dams Spoiler Alert! (Nobody Uses Them.)

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A woman’s boyfriend used to achieve orgasm with ease. But now he can’t come from penetration. The caller worries that in her boyfriend’s eyes, she has become the madonna, when she used to be the whore. Dan speaks with a bisexual man, whose first attempt at unicorning (yes, we verbbed the word “unicorn,”) went poorly, … Read More »

Money and vaginas.

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A gay man is fed up with all the public sex at gay pride parades! It’s bad PR! Enough already! Will Dan agree? Listen and find out. A woman is planning to marry. Her fiancé has a lot less money than she does, and they maintain separate bank accounts. When she marries, should they combine … Read More »

With E. Jean Carroll

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What do you do when love being single, but also want that new relationship energy? A woman vents some righteous fury that many women don’t find short men attractive. IT’S NOT FAIR. On the Magnum, Dan chats with the very amazing RIVAL but BELOVED advice columnist E. Jean Carroll. She has been writing “Ask E. … Read More »

With former white supremacist Christian Picciolini.

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A 76 year-old woman wonders if everyone is doing polyamory these days, or if there are any monogamous couples left. A woman’s twin brother has become a white supremacist, and is getting sucked in to a very scary community. Dan brings on Christian Picciolini, who himself was recruited and eventually left the white power movement. … Read More »

Get On Your Knees!

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A man keeps sending his female friends sexual texts and pics, later apologizing saying it was a mistake and sent to the wrong person. Both our caller, and podcast host know better. A man’s husband will sometimes wake in the middle of the night and have wild, uninhibited sex. Then he forgets it happened in … Read More »

A medical cause for excess horniness? With Dr. Debby Herbenick.

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Is it common for straight men to be “secretly into dick?” Because that’s what this woman’s boyfriend is. A transwoman got together with a guy in a dungeon. But she forgot to tell him that she is trans. Her lover told her it would be wise to reveal this detail early on. Should she? Must … Read More »

Hail Satan! With Satanic Temple founder Lucien Greaves.

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A woman is tormented that her partner of 7 years has not learned how to pee without spraying the area. Dan’s response is both charitable and practical. A 70 year-old man is in an open relationship with his wife. He is communicating with a 30 year-old woman online who lives out of town. How can … Read More »

The Pain! The Pain!

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A woman has been dating a man for 4 months. She just read on his public blog that he thinks he isn’t clicking with her. Should she admit she read his blog? Why would he write such a thing? A gay man encountered a willing slave in the bathroom at an orgy. (As one does.) … Read More »

Summer sex toys! With Erika Moen.

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A reasonable woman is about to visit her over-the-top Christian family. Her sister has invited her to join a book club when she’s there. Guess what the book is! Should the caller sit through her sister’s stealth Bible study, or find a way to politely decline? Or perhaps there’s yet another way… A man used … Read More »

Work-related questions answered: with Rob Walker

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A man still has hot videos he took of his ex. He loves his current girlfriend, but the sex isn’t nearly as good. How wrong is it to view the historical footage? A straight man has HAD IT UP TO HERE with all this “they/them” stuff! And sometimes, you use “they/them” and they still get … Read More »

It’s the One-Minute Wonder Show!

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That’s right. Your calls were one minute or less. Dan’s answers were 2 minutes or less. We blasted through so much, it feels like a blur. Blowing air in vaginas, toxic Drag Race fans, squirting cleanup, anal skin tags, finding that clit, how to avoid getting things stuck up your butt, jizz enemas, micro infidelities, … Read More »

OMG. So. Gay.

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Just in time for your pride parade, it’s the all gay episode! Calls by, for and about queer people. We got nervous lesbians who are scared to introduce the girlfriend to their moms, we got homos who come too soon, or get spooked by conventionally attractive men. Look! It’s a bisexual woman who has never … Read More »

The Case for Nudism

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A gay man is dating a self-described “Sex Pig.” His antics in public are epic. The caller wants to figure out if he can learn to be more carefree and uninhibited or negotiate some rules to please them both. Hear and learn from the cautionary tale of the dutiful daughter housesitting for her parents, and … Read More »

It’s the S & M show!

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With the ever-charming and fearsome Mistress Matisse. She came to our studio to help Dan answer questions about bruises (wanted and unwanted,) gang bangs, the nasty kind of doms you’ll meet on Reddit, rough sex when you’re pregnant and the proper care and washing of your ball-gag. And more! And, on the Magnum, Dan chats … Read More »

What do we do now that Tumblr is dead?

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Here’s a conundrum: A black, gay man is married to his white husband. They want to drive into threesomes, but the black man is only attracted to white men and the white man is only attracted to black men. So you see. This is a real pickle. Meanwhile, a straight man has fantasies where he … Read More »

With Sex Worker’s Rights Advocate Alex Andrews.

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Here are the Savage Lovecast we’ve noticed that we’ll get a bunch of calls on a particular subject all at once. This week it was abortion and weddings. A caller asks if we should just sit on our hands and let Alabama and the other states hijacked by their far right politicians reap the political … Read More »

With Maddie Corman

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A woman is dating a man who used to be a sex addict. He slept with hundreds of women. Now their relationship is solid and monogamous, but his many former lovers keep texting him and trying to keep in touch. The caller feels threatened and creeped out. A man has started going to hot yoga … Read More »

Just how reversible are vasectomies?

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A man his wife want to have kids. He would like to have a threesome before they do. Is it wrong to issue an ultimatum: “NO KIDS until we have that threeway?” Dan chats with Dr. Landon Trost from the Mayo clinic about vasectomies- how reversible are they? On the Magnum, Dan has a long … Read More »

Second Opinion! With “Dear Therapist.”

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A woman keeps getting told to go home after she hooks up in the middle of the night. Don’t any of these gentleman know how to make breakfast? A woman has learned that her beloved aunt has been having a lesbian affair for decades. Some but not all of her family knows. Should the caller … Read More »

People are…good? With Nicholas A. Christakis.

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A kinky woman enjoys having slaves. But the guy she really likes is vanilla. It didn’t work out. This is sad. Does being kinky mean you can’t have vanilla love too? A school teacher and her boyfriend want to go to a sex club. But she’s worried about running into parents of her students, or … Read More »

With Dr. Wednesday Martin.

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A woman claims that over 90% of the time, her casual hook-ups end with the man orgasming, and she gets…nothing. And then! When she asks for a little reciprocity, these men accuse her of being a demanding princess. Meanwhile, another straight woman loves it when her men say no at first. She loves the chase … Read More »

Radicalized! With Cory Doctorow.

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A bisexual man and his girlfriend want to try a threeway with another man. But he has never been with a man before and feels anxious. The girlfriend just feels turned on. He wishes she would suppress her desire and support him in this trying time. A woman’s friend is beginning the process of coming … Read More »

Weed = Better Orgasms for Women. Yay Science!

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Look at her. She’s only a lesbian when she’s drunk! Why does she dream of a white picket fence with her loving wife by her side but only when she’s had 5 whisky sours? A woman is planning to marry prince charming. He is so wonderful in every way. Except…when he wants sex he grabs … Read More »

Decriminalize Sex Work!

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A man often yawns soon after coming. He has to convince his partners that he’s not bored. A dutiful father worries that when he drops his used come-rag in the laundry along with his kids’ clothes that his sperm is getting spread around the innocent garments. “Does the come actually exit the washing machine?” asks … Read More »

With comedian Kate Willett

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A woman has been dating her older boyfriend for 6 years, and she still hasn’t met his kids. Does she have grounds for righteous indignation here? A woman and her boyfriend are considering bringing in another man for a threeway. How can they proceed with caution? On the Magnum version of the show, Dan chats … Read More »

With Andrew Rannells

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A woman and her husband are having a difficult year. And to top it off, he divulged that he likes to wear women’s clothes, and would like to raid her closet. She worries that this is just the first step toward a transgender identity. Do straight men ever like to wear women’s clothes? (Spoiler: Yes.) … Read More »

The TRIGGER show.

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Yowsers! it’s the TRIGGER SHOW. This show is pretty gnarly. There’s molestation, pedophila, snuff porn, incest, dicks in a drawer, blubbering boyfriends and even doggity style! Listen in if you dare. On the Magnum, we also have Dan’s transman pal Jens Cinquemani on to take a few trans-orented calls. 206-302-2064

We got PUNKED.

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A woman has taken up with two men. One of them is a pal, and it’s all about the sex. The other one is her perfect fit emotionally, but the sex is on the “meh” side. How on earth can she choose between them? A while back we had on a guest who turned out … Read More »

Johann Hari on the depression epidemic.

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A man lives in a duplex below a couple women. One day, he heard them having sex, and it inspired him to have a wank. Now he feels guilty. Is he an Eavesdropping Tom? A woman hooked up with a younger man. He asked her if his penis looked like it was circumcised. He wasn’t … Read More »

The Ethics of HIV Disclosure

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When bisexual friends go wild: A lesbian has been buddies with a bi woman for a while. Guess what happened when they got drunk! Now, the bi friend is asking her boyfriend for a hall pass to sleep with the lesbian friend. But will their friendship be able to withstand all this newfound passion? Hear … Read More »

With Eric Leue from the Free Speech Coalition.

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A woman makes twice as much as her boyfriend. When he learned this his eyes went wide. Now she feels guilty. Should she start paying more of the bills? Do you like piña coladas? A kinky woman started dating a new man. Before she could tell him about her kinks she discovered that the dude … Read More »

Squirt along with Dr. Zhana!

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Hey uncircumcised fellas! Would you get cut because your girlfriend wanted you to? Because she thought that it made your dick bigger? Would you really? This guy did. Hear the tale of a man’s sexual adventure in Las Vegas, and how he can’t seem to find a lady unless he’s paying her. Gracing us on … Read More »

Dating with Disabilities

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Therapy is good right? It gets you in touch with your feelings. Unless…those feelings you are getting in touch with are jealousy, paranoia and possessiveness. Sometimes it’s time to BACK AWAY FROM THE FEELINGS. Anyway, here’s the kind of question you really came for: A woman is about to turn thirty and wants to throw … Read More »

The Bad Behavior Show

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Some of you are doing terrible things. We start with a teen who has been sneaking off with her mother’s vibrator. How can her long-suffering parents encourage her to use one without using *that particular* one? A woman’s new boyfriend begs her to let him change her tampon, saying it would bring them closer together. … Read More »

Pasturbators

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A gay man is sick of always having to initiate with his new boyfriend. The boyfriend is a big guy, but very submissive. How can the caller get the dude to make a move now and again? A woman caught her fiancé wanking to photos of his exes. Now she feels jealous and insecure. How … Read More »

Bad ‘Stache

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A Jewish woman is bringing her boyfriend to the Hanukkah party. Great, right? But as always, there’s a problem. He has a HITLER MUSTACHE. Because he “likes the look.” Dan chats with this woman, and you get to listen. A young man’s parents discovered kinky sexts on his phone. How can he explain BDSM to … Read More »

Using the poly label to cheat, cheat, cheat.

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The first call of 2019 is all about public sex. So that’s how things are looking. We then move on to a deep, methodical analysis of the life cycle of your vibrator. How long should those things last anyway? On the Magnum, Dan chats with queer sex writer Sophie Saint Thomas about her article in … Read More »