I am a 24-year-old womandating a 39-year-old former porn actor. At first I was willing to believe he did porn to “support his art,” but now it seems that if he’s an artist at all, it’s of the pick-up variety. He constantly tells me he’s a sexual athlete who needs to have group sex. I am bisexual, but my last relationship broke up after a ménage [à trois], so I’m reluctant to go that route again. Real life is not like porn; i.e. there are consequences to sex, emotional and otherwise.
Lately he’s been very vocal about needing “fresh pussy.” Those were his exact words. He is very honest with me, and I think honesty is better than being lied to and cheated on. My last boyfriend — whom my friends loved — lied to me all the time; this boyfriend — whom my friends hate — at least doesn’t lie. He’s also great in bed...