A friend of mine is setting up a website with some of her friends for feminist (mostly queer) porn. I’m straight, and she asked me if I wanted to be in it, with or without my boyfriend of two years. After clarifying that I wouldn’t be making porn with people I didn’t want to do it with, and that I like it a lot rougher than would be traditionally considered “feminist,” she said that anything I wanted to do was fine.
I discussed this with my boyfriend and he is more than willing to do it—but he said that it is my decision. I’ve taken a lot of naked/sexual/whatever pictures of myself for him, and I’m not particularly self-conscious about being photographed naked or even in sexual situations. I certainly enjoy my fair share of porn, and I’m not averse to giving back to the genre. I also...