

I’m a 32-year-old, very
attractive, very fit SWM living in NYC. I’m well-read and well-spoken.
I march to the beat of my own drum. Friends tell me that my personality
is intense. I’m extremely idealistic, and I count myself as a romantic.
I’m interested in an intense and consuming love affair with a woman.
But friends tell me that my approach to courtship scares women off. I’m
tired of fouling things up and making myself lonely. Yet, when a lady
friend of mine suggested I spend a night out with her where she would
act as my wingman, I recoiled. Prowling for random women in a bar
doesn’t fit my sense of romance.
Should I consider counseling to try to tame
my personality?
Wild Horses Drag Me Away
It would help to know, WHDMA, what exactly
you’re doing—besides being all intensely romantic and extremely
idealistic and...