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Thrills and Spills

I’m an old guy, fast approaching geezerdom. After 45 years of marriage to the same woman, the sex has fallen to zero. We otherwise have a great relationship. If I want any at all these days, the only options are masturbation or professionals. I was very nervous the first time I paid for sex. Surprisingly, considering my Christian upbringing, I didn’t feel guilty. Now as geezerdom takes full hold, all I think about is pussy, and paid sex has become a regular thing. You stress honesty and communication for a long-term relationship to work. In our case, honesty would mean the end to what is now a great friendship that provides us both with deeply satisfying companionship. I don’t want to hurt her, but revealing my outside activities would certainly do so, as she thinks men using prostitutes is disgusting. Any comments from a young gay guy?

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