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Welcome To Kinkyville! (Now Open Your Wallets)

Everyone’s worried that they are taking up too much space. A straight man feels guilty that he signed up for an activity meant for folks in the LGBT community. And, a transman ventured into a gay leather bar with his girlfriend and got the stink-eye. Is it cool to bring your girlfriend into dedicated gay … Read More »

Divorce at Any Age? With Joan Price.

Women beware! A new form of negging has emerged. If you followed a hook-up on Instagram, but he didn’t follow you back, it could be INSTA-NEGGING. A trans man iplans to do a lot more butt sex once he has bottom surgery. How can he prepare on a daily basis? On the Magnum, is it … Read More »

Dirty, Nasty Words! With Professor John McWhorter.

A bi woman wants to try threeways with her boyfriend. He enthusiastically agrees. But it’s been a while since she’s been with a woman, and wants to have a trial run with just her unicorn. Now, he’s getting a little nervous… A woman with a 12 year-old son has been toying with the idea of … Read More »

Yes, Vasectomies Are Safe.

Dan! Dan! My dildos melted together in the drawer! Horrifically, this is not uncommon if you buy cheap-ass sex toys. A gay man is establishing a potentially great friends-with-benefits relationship. The problem? The guy won’t stop sending him stupid little memes all the damn day long. How can our caller put an end to this … Read More »

Wait. Bill & Melinda???

My, what a fetish-y show we have for you this week! Genital stretching? Check. Chastity belts? Sure. Piss play? Why not? Gainer/Feeder? Let’s go! In a more wholesome turn, Dan welcomes Dr. Debby Herbenick back to the show. The sex educator answers a question about the nature of multiple orgasms for women and the unwelcome … Read More »

Insta-Apocalypse with JoEllen Notte.

Ah, the pleasures of getting rimmed! But what if you are alone, during quarantine times? Is there a sex toy out there to help a lass get off? Starting in kindergarten, a woman began masturbating using a very specific and very odd technique. Now she needs to do this, and she’s super-embarrassed about it. How … Read More »

Escape from Conversion Therapy Camp!

Our opening covid-era Sexcess story features seniors in a retirement community huffing on ice bongs and getting it on. If they can do it, you can too. A Wiccan druid witchy woman is dating a Christian dude. They let each other be. But when he requests that they do some role playing where she dresses … Read More »

With Political Gabfest’s Emily Bazelon!

A man and his much younger girlfriend decided to seek a unicorn through swinging apps. Her only rule was to set the age limit to women over 30. So, naturally, he went for women in their 20s. What’s the problem?! A queer woman is into being choked. She knows it’s unsafe. Is there any way … Read More »

Is polyamory still cancelled?

Some rando started following a woman on Insta. He confessed that he jerks off to her yoga photos. She told him she would have to charge him a fee for this. He agreed. The question is… how much? A woman Googled her dad. What did she find? She found videos of women in bathing suits. … Read More »

Cuckolding with Venus

A woman started dating a transman. But then his personality completely changed. I this just a trans thing? Or a coincidence? A verse dyke working as a nanny in an uptight conservative community can’t find any other lesbians. She’s so horny she would settle for a man. But how can she find someone willing to … Read More »