fbpx

Be on the Lovecast! Record right now, or call 206-302-2064.

All Hail E. Jean Carroll!

Micro Episode with ads
Listen here or subscribe for free on Spotify, Apple, or find other ways to listen.
Magnum Episode bonus content, no ads
Already Subscribed? Log in here.

A woman’s old friend and sometime lover asked her for a beaver shot to ease his stress on an upcoming couples trip. She obliged. Did he thank her? No he did not. She’s miffed, and wonders if she’s being too sensitive. We love questions like this: What do gay men actually do with vibrators? Our … Read More »

The Dog Ate My Vibrator

On the Magnum: Erika Moen on hands free sex toys
Micro Episode with ads
Listen here or subscribe for free on Spotify, Apple, or find other ways to listen.
Magnum Episode bonus content, no ads
Already Subscribed? Log in here.

A woman is grappling with the dubious ethics of financial domination. Her friend asked her to do it, and she made a quick, easy $1k. But she knows that it is addictive and can ruin men’s lives. Should she continue? A gay man is being bothered to distraction by his straight pal who teases and … Read More »

“Um…I think you left something?”

On the Magnum: Melissa Febos on abstinence
Micro Episode with ads
Listen here or subscribe for free on Spotify, Apple, or find other ways to listen.
Magnum Episode bonus content, no ads
Already Subscribed? Log in here.

While tidying up after some Airbnb guests, a gay man discovered a vibrator left under the pillow. Should he message the couple and offer to send it back, or would that be too embarrassing? One year ago, a woman called the show about her boyfriend, and Dan advised her to break up with him. But … Read More »

Consensual Non-Consent Conundrum

On the Magnum: Arielle Domb on Sex Doll Hotels
Micro Episode with ads
Listen here or subscribe for free on Spotify, Apple, or find other ways to listen.
Magnum Episode bonus content, no ads
Already Subscribed? Log in here.

A woman’s boyfriend wants her to drug him, have her way with him and share him with her friends. He did this before with an ex, and loved it. She’s intrigued, but cautious. Should she do it? A straight man is miffed when women act like they want to meet for a second time, but … Read More »

Fake News! A history of The Onion with Christine Wenc

On the Magnum: Are you into iglooing?
Micro Episode with ads
Listen here or subscribe for free on Spotify, Apple, or find other ways to listen.
Magnum Episode bonus content, no ads
Already Subscribed? Log in here.

A man briefly dated a guy who only bottoms, and collects a variety of giant dildos. The caller worries that his natural size would never satisfy a man like this, and wonders if this is just the standard psychology of power bottoms. A straight woman tends to be attracted to gay and bisexual men, though … Read More »

Interview with the Financial Dominatrix

On the Magnum: Wobbly Triads with Neil McNeil
Micro Episode with ads
Listen here or subscribe for free on Spotify, Apple, or find other ways to listen.
Magnum Episode bonus content, no ads
Already Subscribed? Log in here.

A woman has been enjoying an insertable vibrator that can be controlled by her partner. Whee! But she worries that if she wears it out in public, it constitutes a consent violation for the unwitting baristas who don’t know why her eyes are crossing all of a sudden. On both the Micro and the Magnum, … Read More »

Can You Be Poly Without “Catching Feelings?”

On the Magnum: Humor writer Alexandra Petri
Micro Episode with ads
Listen here or subscribe for free on Spotify, Apple, or find other ways to listen.
Magnum Episode bonus content, no ads
Already Subscribed? Log in here.

A woman moved into a new house and promptly slept with her roommate. It was great sex and the caller wants a repeat. He claims he wants more as well, but then never actually takes her up on it. One night she asked if he wanted to…you know…do it, and he chose to play video … Read More »

With Damona Hoffman of “Dates & Mates.”

Micro Episode with ads
Listen here or subscribe for free on Spotify, Apple, or find other ways to listen.
Magnum Episode bonus content, no ads
Already Subscribed? Log in here.

A tortured, indecisive woman is on the fence about whether to continue her relationship with her husband of 11 years. Every day she wakes up wondering, “Is this right?” Is this normal?  Hear the cautionary tale of the professional cuddler in an ethically non-monogamous relationship with a would-be dom and his much, much younger co-worker. … Read More »

Healing Yourself from Sexual Trauma with Rena Martine.

Micro Episode with ads
Listen here or subscribe for free on Spotify, Apple, or find other ways to listen.
Magnum Episode bonus content, no ads
Already Subscribed? Log in here.

A straight man in his 40s can only come if his lady is so, so, very wet. Is this a kink? Also, as he and his partners are aging, the likelihood of his finding a woman who can accommodate him diminishes. What can he do to ensure middle aged orgasms for all? A man’s husband … Read More »

Pegging WILL be in the Oxford English Dictionary…

Micro Episode with ads
Listen here or subscribe for free on Spotify, Apple, or find other ways to listen.
Magnum Episode bonus content, no ads
Already Subscribed? Log in here.

A bi man in a monogamous heterosexual marriage keeps having his sexuality questioned by gay friends. It’s super annoying! Should he even bring up his bisexuality? Should he feel miffed?  A woman with a newish boyfriend wants to try some consensual non-consent. Specifically, she wants to be woken from a deep sleep to him having … Read More »