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The Rape Ballet


Your response to New York City Girl was INSENSITIVE. There is no longer any question
that you are a MAN! I was raped (with a dildo) by a female lover. I was hurt and
angry, but I gave in and forgave her. Needless to say, the abuse continued throughout
our time together. While NYCG wasn’t penetrated, I’m sure she was scared and confused.
She definitely should see a shrink and maybe join a support group.

A Woman Who Knows

Was there some question about my gender before my response to NYCG appeared in the column? And didn’t I tell NYCG–the girl who got naked and crawled into bed with an ex-boyfriend who proceeded to ignore her growing discomfort, ignore the word “no,” and come all over her stomach–to see a shrink?

As for the charge of insensitivity, AWWK, there’s at least one person out there who disagrees with...

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