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First, congrats to recent Lovecast guest Manon Garcia on her new book — The Joy of Consent — being named one the 15 best books of 2023 by The New Statesman!
A caller wanted to get back together with her ex despite their tumultuous relationship and breakup. He was an insecure boy, she was a mean drunk, and their dynamic was toxic — but that was then, before they got into therapy. Says Mythic Fox…
Maybe my family’s history with...