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The Thursday Letter: What What In the Butt

On Thursdays I share a question from a reader and try — I really, really do try my hardest — to let my readers give the advice. But first, a quick email from Extra…

Lest we overrate hand jobs, Dan, Dicklord is here to remind us that they don’t always hit that spot.

Catchy! And it happens!

Okay, here’s this week’s letter…

Plenty of men seem to want to fuck women in the ass. I realize you may not be the right person to ask, but maybe you have some insight or theories on this anyway. What is the appeal? I mean, I perfectly get wanting to fuck a man in the ass: given that you want to penetrate a man, not counting the mouth, the ass is the only hole available to do it in (at least if it’s a cis man). But a woman (at least a cis woman) has a vagina which for most women requires much less prep and is self-lubricating. Is the appeal of the asshole precisely that it is more difficult and requires more trust from the woman? Or that it’s more taboo? Or are men after a different physical sensation? Or something else I can’t think of? I can’t imagine that a lot of people want it because they’re into shit.

What’s Ass All About?

Men who want to fuck women in the ass — what’s with them? Got a theory for WAAA? Drop it in the comments!

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