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Episodes tagged: trans

Legal Advice for Trans Folks

On the Magnum: Dr. Jen Gunter on a new BV study
Episode #962 —
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A gay man and his boyfriend are in an open relationship. His boyfriend forbids the caller from messing around with anyone in their friend group. But this friend group is super-kinky and super-horny, regularly propositioning the caller for naughty fun. It’s getting hard to say no… A trans guy still has “female” on his birth … Read More »

Gooning: A Masturbatory Trance

On the Magnum: Magdalene Taylor
Episode #957 —
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Age gap relationships! Sometimes they are a-ok. Sometimes they are not. A woman is having an argument with her boyfriend about whether his previous relationship was dicey because of the 9-year age difference. She dated a younger person too, but the circumstances were different. Dan Savage (who knows from age gap relationships) weighs in. A … Read More »

A Very Poly Valentine’s Day

On the Magnum: Mike Pesca
Episode #954 —
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A married gay man is newly poly with his husband and boyfriend. Simple question: Who should he celebrate Valentine’s Day with? A non-binary AFAB person frequents a sex club where women pay much less than men or couples. And there’s a dress code…men must be naked, and women must wear lingerie. The caller wears the … Read More »

Straight Boy Discovers Own Ass!

On the Magnum: Manuel Betancourt
Episode #953 —
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A straight man was accidentally paired with a trans man on a hookup app. When the trans man found out his match was a straight dude, he tapped out. But that got the caller thinking… should he search for pre-op trans men on Grindr in the hopes of connecting with trans men who haven’t had … Read More »

Big Poly Mess in Aisle 4!

On the Magnum: Doc Chocolate!
Episode #951 —
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A gay man is mourning the loss of his hair. He shaved it all off, but doesn’t like the new look. Are there any other options? How can he learn to love the new bald version of himself? “Big poly mess in aisle 4!” She started seeing a married man who was new to poly. … Read More »

Prepare to celebrate the Feast of the Ass.

On the Magnum: Medievalist Dr. Eleanor Jalenga
Episode #947 —
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Dan Savage is bringing back a forgotten Catholic holiday. On January 14, let us all celebrate the Feast of the Ass. Get your Feast of the Ass bundt cakes here. A woman’s beloved twin sister isn’t dating, isn’t getting on the apps, isn’t looking for a relationship. Should the caller keep trying to set her … Read More »

Bad Boys

On the Magnum: Ashley Ray on the JonBenét Ramsey case.
Episode #945 —
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A trans guy just can’t break into gay male spaces. He feels ridiculed and rejected, and ends up sitting in a corner alone while the sweaty dance party goes on around him. He used to be confident before his transition. How can he get a little of that male swagger and bed a hot twink? … Read More »

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Episode #941 —
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First off, we hear from a neglected third in a poorly executed threeway hook-up. He failed to advocate for himself, and the other two guys weren’t asking if he was ok, sitting on the couch, looking at his phone. How could this have gone better? And how can he get over the waves of insecurity … Read More »

Meth Baby

On the Magnum: Interview with the Cross-Dresser
Episode #930 —
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Workplace intrigue ahoy! A gay trans man who passes completely, is out to some of his co-workers but not all. Over drinks, one of his bosses told him he was bi, but not attracted to male genitals. So was this his way of acknowledging that the caller is trans, and flirting with him? Or was … Read More »

Done: Pegging IS in the Oxford English Dictionary.

On the Magnum: comedian Andy Richter
Episode #923 —
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It’s the “Overthinking It” episode! “I’ll give you $100 if you spit in my beer.” This offer was made by a random gentleman in a sushi bar to an unsuspecting lady. She declined. Would you do it? Is anything wrong here? Overthinking it? Meanwhile, a man wonders if the dubious ethics he saw in a … Read More »