My girlfriend and I have been living together for two years now, and it
seems as though lesbian bed death is setting in. Pretending everything is fine
isn’t working. Being romantic, going out to dinner, and wooing her isn’t working.
Being frustrated and bringing this up as an issue ends with her asking, essentially,
“Isn’t cuddling enough?” Yikes! I love this woman and want to share my life
with her–I am sharing a really great life with her now–but what do you do
when one partner needs sex more often than the occasional bank holiday? The
first year was plenty hot, with plenty o’ sex. This year, it’s the desert. How
can this be resolved?
Lezzie Boredom
“It’s not fair to have one year of hot sex and then say that’s enough for a lifetime,” said Dr. Pepper Schwartz, the University of Washington sociologist who coined the phrase...