I’m a girl who wants to wake up my guy with a blowjob. But I am hesitant
because I was molested in my sleep a few years ago by someone I was not involved
with or interested in, and it really disturbed me. I don’t want to deny my guy
a wake-up blowjob he might enjoy. And I know I would enjoy doing it! Please
tell me that this is a different situation and to go ahead and do it!
AMBJ
Since you would be molesting a man you’ve presumably molested on previous occasions–someone you’re involved with, and not some stranger asleep on an airplane–this proposed molestation differs fundamentally from the one you suffered. The person who molested you in your sleep didn’t have your explicit or implied consent; unless you’re the kind of person who startles easily, it was this lack of...