HEY, EVERYBODY: A few months back, I departed from the usual advice-column Q&A, and, taking full advantage of e-mail technology, experimented with a new, genre-busting format: Question & Response & Response. The experiment was a success, and many of you wrote in to suggest that I switch Savage Love over to Q&R&R for good. I declined to do so, I wrote at the time, because Q&R&R is a lot more work than good ol’ Q&A. But… after careful consideration, some market research, and a few focus groups, I’ve decided to run Q&R&R columns on a semi-regular basis. Enjoy.
I just moved in with someone I didn’t know in New York City. I would’ve preferred
to move into my own place, but I’m poor. Now, a week into living here, I find
out my roommate is gay. I’m not. I’m leaving. I think he should have told me
he was gay before I moved in. Who’s the...