Whenever we are making love, my girlfriend begs me to say
“sexy things” to her. I have no clue as to what she means or what to say. She
tells me she’s turned on by “dirty” talk. Can you please give me some examples
of sexy things to say, or tell me where I can get educated about what dirty things
to say to a woman when we’re making love?
Lust For Words
You’re in real danger here, LFW, and you need to proceed with extreme caution. I have a file full of letters from men whose wives or girlfriends asked them to “talk dirty” or, even worse, tell them their “wildest fantasies.” Many of these men made the mistake of doing what their girlfriends or wives asked.
Making generalizations about three billion people on one hand (men) and three billion people on the other hand (women) is a dangerous...