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Chickenshit, Sissymaid, O’Reilly

I’m in college and I live with my best friend. He and I tell each other almost everything… except he doesn’t know that I’m bi. What complicates things further is that I am completely in love with him. He’s straight and oblivious. Everyone says that you can’t “convert” someone… but… I’m wondering if he has bi-curious leanings that he isn’t telling me about. Is there some way I can get him to open up to me without necessarily exposing myself? My worst fear is that I tell him the truth and he ends our friendship and moves out.

Tried Not to Fall

Let me see if I follow you, TNTF: You want to know if there’s some way to get your roommate–a boy you have a crush on–to tell you he’s bisexual and attracted to you without “exposing” yourself to him, i.e., without telling him that you’re bi.

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