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Preggers

Usually, I love your open, honest, thoughtful advice, but what you said to Momma Violates Poppa, the sexually frustrated pregnant woman whose husband won’t sleep with her, was as cruel as what her husband’s doing to her. Yes, it’s possible that her husband’s just plain not turned on. But no sex with the love of her life for nine months? I think that garners more than, “Maybe you’re just too ugly for him right now, sweetie.” How about suggesting that they TALK about it honestly and openly? It sounds like this woman has dropped every hint in the book, but has she actually said, “Look, we need to schedule some time to talk about what’s going on in our sex life”? Seeing as how they’ve been married for five years, who better for him to open up to than her?

Honesty on Tap

Your advice is nice in theory, HOT, but do you...

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