I am a gay, healthy, native dude from the Midwest attending a sleepy university. I’ve got a great group of friends and a pretty well-rounded social life. With school and all the organizations I belong to, you would think that I was swimming in a sea of eligible gay men to escort to the local hoedown. Unfortunately, I am not attracted to many gay men, nor the gay scene itself. I know it is self-defeating but I can’t end this cycle. I am tired of seeing everyone but me with a boyfriend. What would you suggest?
Single Dude
P.S. I have tons of women always trying to seduce me for real. Where are the gay boys?
First, the slap: This often comes as a surprise to I’m-not-attracted-to-other-gay-men-and-the-whole-gay-scene types, but the overwhelming majority of out gay men can smell a gay man who’s repulsed by other gay...