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Sisters & Slaves

Joe Newton

My sister, whom I’m quite close with, has been getting into S&M. Recently she announced that she has acquired a slave. After much thought and discussion on the matter, I am still having a very hard time coming to terms with it. The problem I have is that she treats him like a slave 24 hours a day. They are planning a “collaring.” I’m the first person to admit that I don’t understand all this. For this reason, I have had conversations on the topic with my sister, but our last conversation ended in her hanging up on me and we haven’t spoken since.

My husband and I are complete equals in every way and I just can’t imagine how I can feel comfortable watching my sister humiliate and degrade someone by ordering them around like a slave. I sure wouldn’t sit back and allow someone to treat her that way!...

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