My wife of 5 years, mate of 11, and mother of our two kids has dropped a bomb on me.
About eight years ago, shortly after our first child, she had a couple of experiences with another woman. Being young and ignorant, I thought it was cool—until I found a letter that she wrote telling this woman she missed her. I confronted her, and we chalked it up to excitement about the “experiment.” Fast-forward to a year ago. She met a new “friend” and my wife suggested that the three of us have sex. I agreed. It was great; it even improved our sex life. Eventually, our new “friend” found a boyfriend and everything ended.
Then, two months after our threesome experiences, my wife dropped the bomb: She believes she’s a lesbian, she’s been attracted to women since she was a teenager, she thinks of women when we have sex, and she doesn’t want to have sex with me anymore.
So...