I’m a 31-year-old man and my
girlfriend is 28. We’ve been in a monogamous relationship for four
years. Recently we’ve been doing the long-distance thing, and we’re
going to be doing it until I can move from Canada to the United States.
This is our problem: She brought up the idea of an open relationship
until I get down there. I said okay—trying to be GGG—and 24
hours later called back and reneged.
Dan, I can’t stand the idea of another
guy with her. I can’t. I trust her and I believe that she would only be
after the sex—but the idea of another guy doing anything to her
drives me nuts. I’ve read that open relationships just don’t work for
some people. But I also believe in being able to improve yourself. Is
my jealousy a negative trait that I can get over?
Help me be modern!
Confused In Canada
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