I am a 23-year-old woman
living with my 25-year-old boyfriend. We have been dating for a little
over a year, and for the majority of that time we had a great sex life.
Unfortunately, when we decided to move in together we also decided to
stop having intercourse until we decide to get married. We made this
choice with a couple factors in mind: (1) lots of pressure from
religious parents who urged us not to engage in premarital sex, and (2)
we aren’t ready to risk having a kid.
We are not engaged yet because we want to
live together for a while to make sure we both want a lifelong
commitment. Our relationship is still thriving, and if we do get
married we already know that we are sexually compatible. The problem is
that every time he instigates a session of fooling around in
nonintercourse ways (which we...