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A lot of people thought my one-word response to SFDW was insufficient. A refresher: SFDW was the guy who’d sucked a few dicks in the context of MMF threesomes with a Dominant woman who got off on watching a guy suck dick on her orders, and SFDW got off on getting this woman off. He’d only sucked dick when ordered to, and only to please this particular woman, but he...