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The first LW in this week’s column is from MILES, a man whose girlfriend is never satisfied — and it’s not the sex that disappoints her, but literally everything else. Says Coolie:
I was married to someone like LW1’s partner. It is exhausting, I was constantly ducking and covering for fear that I was dancing in the minefield. It never got better, I never did a good enough job, I was never a good enough...