1. What’s with all the caging in gay porn?
The appeal of male chastity devices seems obvious: a cock cage instantly turns the most important thing about a male porn performer into the least important thing. Paradoxically, male chastity devices pull visual focus toward a performer’s dick — they draw the eye — while shifting the focus of the action away from his dick. And while lots of gay guys get off on saying, “I’m just a hole, Sir!”, gay guys in male chastity devices really commit to the bit. Also, high quality male chastity devices — like the ones made by the evil geniuses at Steelwerks — aren’t cheap, so consumer culture, status display, and late-stage capitalism all factor in.
2. I’ve been having more sex ever since opening up my relationship. I had an experience with one of my hookups where I wasn’t able to stay hard and ever since then it keeps on...