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STRUGGLE SESSION: What Gay People Know, What Gay People Don’t Know, What Cameron Knows Now and More!

Let’s get right to it…

Randy Rainbow came back on the Lovecast and we briefly discussed something we think straight people could learn from gay people. Ann on Instagram wasn’t having it…

You don’t know what straight people think or feel cause you’re not straight. Vice versa. Hate this kinda projection. Both of you are smarter than this, come on!

Ann was reacting to this particular clip, where we (mostly me) talked about how when two people of the opposite sex go to bed together for the first time, communication almost always stops at consent — the conversation stops — because what happens next is almost always assumed: the man is going to fuck the woman. When two men go to bed together for the first time, on the other hand, the conversation doesn’t stop at consent because what happens next can’t be assumed. Who is going to fuck and who is going to get fucked? Which is why, after consent...

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