Let’s get right to it…
So, I got a call this week from a straight guy who couldn’t understand why his long-distance girlfriend was so sore after PIV… which they’d been having roughly five times in a single night after getting back together. I encouraged the caller to use more lube, to define sex more broadly, and to think about what it means to be on the receiving end of penetrative sex: “If you — if straight guys — got fucked in the ass every time you said yes to sex, you wouldn’t say yes as often.” NoCuteName objects…
I like that Dan suggested broadening the definition of “have sex” to encompass things besides PIV, and I like the command to use lots more lube, but I’m tired of hearing Dan compare anuses to vaginas when he says he tells straight men that if they got fucked in the ass five times in a day (or whatever), that they might...