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Struggle Session is a bonus column where I respond to comments — just a few — from readers, listeners, haters, and fans. I also share a letter that won’t be included in the column and invite my readers to share their advice. (NOTE: I scheduled this post to go live on Thursday before I left … Read More »
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1. I’m a 34-year-old woman who has been with a man I really enjoy for three years. There are a few reasons I don’t think we’re going to last forever. Most importantly: I’m not planning to have kids. He knows that but he wants them. Do I cut it off or let it run its … Read More »
Hey, Everybody: Still sick here, so… an abbreviated struggle this week (just a couple of links) plus a bonus question for the group. Says Jodie… Have you seen the new Rosetta Stone commercial featuring the old farmer guy learning German (presumably) for the Berlin leather bars?! I hadn’t seen it — but Jodie was kind … Read More »
The fact that I’m in an LTR with a partner who knows I’m bi, is fine with me exploring with other guys, allows to me seeing professional dominants, and has experimented with me over the course of our relationship is probably all down to what I have learned reading your column and listening to your … Read More »
Hey, everybody: I’m not feeling well — can’t shake this cold I’ve had for more than two weeks — so this one is gonna be short… Says Anonymous via email… Comment for the 48-year-old female caller, dating man 12 years younger, who called in to Episode 990: Proceed with caution. I also got involved in … Read More »
I’m the parent of a 14-year-old boy who is on the autism spectrum. Recently, I discovered that he has been searching online for some niche sexual material. Because of his autism, he tends to hyper-fixate on things, and I’m concerned about what might happen if I ignore this. Could it affect his future sexual development … Read More »
Struggle Session is a bonus column where I respond to comments — just a few — from readers and listeners. I also share a letter that won’t be making in the column and invite my readers to share their advice. Tolyamorist spotted in the wild… My husband’s having an affair but doesn’t realize I know. … Read More »
Flashback: My last serious girlfriend was kinky. I am pretty vanilla — I’m not a natural sub — but I was game. We got into D/s play, and we went to some big fetish parties together. Her favorite “foreplay” was having me kneel between her legs while she showed me guys on dating apps she’d … Read More »
Struggle Session is a bonus column where I respond to comments — just a few — from readers, listeners, haters, and fans. I also share a letter that won’t be included in the column and invite my readers to share their advice. This email came from David… Hi, Dan. Just started reading this fascinating book. … Read More »
I’m a bi girl in a serious relationship with a bi guy, and said bi guy has a major thing for being cucked. We’ve had a few threesomes before, but only with bisexuals and the focus was on all three of us equally. Recently, though, we had a 2-on-1 threesome with a straight guy, and … Read More »
Hey, gang: I’m in Berlin on a quick birthday trip with the boyfriend… so, it’s gonna short session today. But please don’t think I’m slacking: I was today’s guest on Jung & Naiv, Germany’s biggest independent news and politics podcast. I spent more than two hours (!) talking about fascism, sexism, queer rights, Franco’s Spain, … Read More »
