My husband and I are passionately in love. Our sex life is truly
amazing. Our problem: As far as I’m concerned, he is obsessive about collecting
sexual material. He continually purchases all kinds of porno magazines. He keeps
a photo album of us (which he claims he looks at most frequently), and also
has a collection of pussy/cocks/tits videos. When he isn’t looking at porn,
he’s reading books about different sexual positions, or how to enhance orgasms,
and he keeps talking about going on a nudist vacation somewhere (I have no problem
with that; I love to be naked).
I am lucky to be with him in mid-life, because so many of my girlfriends
have unsatisfying sex lives. I am grateful for what we have together. He tells
me it’s normal for men to want visuals, but when is it considered too much or
obsessive? I am...