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I was really surprised at the advice you gave to Orgasmless in Seattle, the
horny girl going off to France. It was so sensible! I can’t help but think that
if it had been a gay boy going to France, you would have told him to have as much
fun as possible, just remember to shrink-wrap the willy.

You definitely would not have warned against letting someone buy him a drink,
for fear of date rape, and you certainly wouldn’t have warned a young, hot gay
boy to make a guy wait. This girl’s looking for a few one-night stands–not
the love of her life. Why should she be so careful? Because she’s a girl? Because
she may not be able to fend for herself? The advice smells like sexism, or at
least is unnecessarily overprotective. Dan, you are now officially acting like
a...

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