I’m in a crisis. I am dating a man who is kind, considerate, and mature,
and sexy to boot. The only problem is that he’s had a vasectomy, and I want
kids–I want kids real bad. He says he would consider reversing his little nip
and tuck, but it’s not as if he’s made any doctor’s appointments, and I know
that it may not work. Do I follow my head or my heart?
Love Him or Leave Him
Leave him.
No single man who wants kids gets a vasectomy, LHOLH, nor do men who are indifferent or conflicted about kids. Men who get vasectomies have made up their minds about kids: They don’t want any. There’s a finality to a vasectomy, a certain case-closed, decision-made, end-of-discussion quality to the act that only a love-blinded woman would be unable to see. Wake up, LHOLH: Single men who get...