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I’m 22 years old and I am NOT ashamed of who I am. I’m just afraid. I know
my parents love me, but on more than one occasion they have made their dislike
for “fags” rather obvious. I’d hate to see their reaction if they were to discover
that their only son is one. I have never even been out on a date with another
man for fear that my folks will find out. Two years ago I attempted suicide
over this.

Please, Dan, I don’t know where to turn. I want to learn how to find happiness
and be openly gay without having to worry about bigotry and hatred. I have only
recently told a couple of friends, who happen to be gay themselves. I haven’t
heard from them since. Their reaction has discouraged me from telling any of
my straight friends. Any advice?

Lonely In...

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