I just read your response to Disabled Dilemma, the man who was trying to find
a girlfriend for his disabled friend. You told DD that his disabled friend should
“reconcile himself to being alone.” I’m not sure how to react. Part of me wants
to call you a cold, mean-spirited fuck. The other part of me wants to commend
you for refusing to sugarcoat the truth.
I’m 28 and have had a disability since birth. I use a wheelchair, and a ventilator
helps me breathe. As you can probably guess, I’m not getting any. I’ve managed
to do a few things with my life, like go to law school and get a decent job. But
my sexual experience is pretty much nil. I used to think that I could attract
women through my intellect and charm. Now I’m more realistic. I understand that
some physical characteristics are simply...