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Chewing the Fat

I am a 28-year-old straight female with a great boyfriend. I want to share all my fucked-up fantasies with him–and I have, so far, except for one. I have these bizarre fantasies about him overindulging in really bad food and gaining weight. I am not a chubby chaser–if he got fat I would not be attracted to him. But whenever he complains about gaining weight or tells me he was “a total pig today,” I’m outrageously turned on. I’ve had dreams where he just keeps eating and eating, and I wake up on the verge of orgasm. What the hell is this? Have you ever heard of such a thing?

Feasting and Tasting Sends Orgasms

Your acronym, FATSO, is nifty, but your question seems contrived. While I know for a fact that some people are turned on by the scenario you describe, I have a hard time believing...

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