I am a straight male in an exclusive relationship. My girlfriend and I have been together for two years, and her need for sex has dwindled. Any attempt to discuss this leads to tears and blame, e.g., “I am not into sex because you…” or, “Everything would be fine if only you would….” My most recent attempt at arousing her interest–taking her to her favorite chic eatery–came to an end when she passed out on the couch in front of the TV.
To supplement the once-in-a-while sex, I masturbate. Lately, though, my girlfriend seems to have developed a problem with this. She is uncomfortable with me jerking off in bed next to her while she reads, which I can understand. However, if I go to the bathroom, she knocks on the door; if I get up to go to the spare bedroom, she follows me and says she wants to “talk.” The...